How do men who knew you before treat you now?

[Jen61]

I do not have any male relatives nearby. However I have a large number of friends/coworkers that new me from before. They treat met like anyother woman, open foor, clam up when I come around (YOU NOW THEY WERE HAVING A BOYS-ONLY CONVERSATION). I cought a few of them checkin me out, really funny.

Jen61

[Mahsa Tezani]

I do not have any male relatives nearby. However I have a large number of friends/coworkers that new me from before. They treat met like anyother woman, open foor, clam up when I come around (YOU NOW THEY WERE HAVING A BOYS-ONLY CONVERSATION). I cought a few of them checkin me out, really funny.

Jen61

Must be pretty awesome into your 40s.

[Anatta]

Kia Ora,

In the beginning awkwardly, but that's to be expected however after they got used to the new pronoun and name no problems ...

I believe for us older members who transitioned later in life we do tend to have more mature relationships where the males have know us for a long period as 'males' which can make it more difficult for them to switch their mind set from seeing you as a male to seeing you as a female...

Metta Zenda

[Jen61]

Must be pretty awesome into your 40s.

Actually Honey, most people think that I am 35, but no, I am much older, but as lady, I will never tell my age. I look and feel so young because several factors: clean life (no smoking, no drugs, no alcohol, no porno or prostitution), regular excersise (run 1 to 2 miles every other day, zumba, karate, golf, etc),  a superior intellect, heterozygous genetic background (dutch/spanish/jewish), a very stimulating job, 6 kids that adore me, friends who support me, and last but not least pleanty of wealth (best food, best air, etc).

And no I have not had  any plastic surgery yet !

Picture ? Maybe someday when you are not going to use it to insult me.     

[Mahsa Tezani]

Picture ? Maybe someday when you are not going to use it to insult me.     

I already know you're better than me.  LMAO.

Whoa back the big rig up. I wasn't even gonna insult you. You caused a lot of the strife with me, not the other way around.

I could care less if you ever show your face or not. What Jen61 is doing on her computer or life is frankly none of my business. I forget about you when I turn off my computer as you're not a valid individual in my life.

BTW, you have 6 kids? WOOOOOOOW! That is an accomplishment! You must have been a stud before transition.

[Mahsa Tezani]

Actually Honey, most people think that I am 35, but no, I am much older, but as lady, I will never tell my age. I look and feel so young because several factors: clean life (no smoking, no drugs, no alcohol, no porno or prostitution), regular excersise (run 1 to 2 miles every other day, zumba, karate, golf, etc),  a superior intellect

Superior intellect?

Well, I fully support the eugenic nature  in this post.

[Jen61]

 

[Jen61]

Superior intellect?

Well, I fully support the eugenic nature  in this post.

Recognizing our own virtues is a virtue on itself !

[Mahsa Tezani]

Recognizing our own virtues is a virtue on itself !

. But an intelligent person knows everything, am I right? I bet you're smarter than all of the women on this board.

What do you do, something in computers? Information Technology?

[Jen61]

. But an intelligent person knows everything, am I right? I bet you're smarter than all of the women on this board.

What do you do, something in computers? Information Technology?

It dependes on what you define as "smart." I know some ladies in this forum who are well recognized in their professional fields (overachievers), other who have self thought an amazing amount of information and had achieved a well rounded education.


I connect the dots for the 1%

[Sarah Louise]

This is getting boring, give it a rest already.

Wasn't the topic How do men who knew you before treat you now?

My answer, anyone I knew from before (man or woman) treat me as they would any other woman.  I can't say what they do when I am not around, but I haven't heard of anyone dissing me.

[tekla]

a superior intellect

People who say that about themselves flunk the first test of really having one.

[Mahsa Tezani]

a superior intellect

People who say that about themselves flunk the first test of really having one.

Same reason they won't post their pics too.

After all, this person has six kids...they must have been a hansome(i.e. masculine) man when they presenting as one.

But I pontius pilot this situation.

[Rabbit]

I'm still pretty early in transition (almost 8 months now on hormones)... and i have a couple close guy friends who i WISH would treat me differently!!

Omg, one of them has this really crude "fart" humor that i really wish he would get rid of.

But, nope, both of them still treat me as "one of the guys", which is fine... just gets really strange when I am with them AND my girlfriends...

[xxUltraModLadyxx]

on my mom's side of the family, they are all supportive. they love and accept me for me. on my dad's, who knows? i have living grandparent's on my dad's side. the grandma still talks to me, but the grandpa stopped talking to me suddenly. as if me losing my "manhood" was the last bit of his respect for me. i don't care though. i have lots of male cousins on that side. they don't seem bad, but i haven't seen them in about a year. i'm really an isolated person by nature. i keep my limitations when it comes to people i'm not regular with.

[xxUltraModLadyxx]

I do not have any male relatives nearby. However I have a large number of friends/coworkers that new me from before. They treat met like anyother woman, open foor, clam up when I come around (YOU NOW THEY WERE HAVING A BOYS-ONLY CONVERSATION). I cought a few of them checkin me out, really funny.

Jen61

i'm guessing your superior intellect is not in spelling?

[Annah]

Same reason they won't post their pics too.

After all, this person has six kids...they must have been a hansome(i.e. masculine) man when they presenting as one.

But I pontius pilot this situation.

What does someone not wanting to post their pics have to do with intellect?

Also, how in the world does having six children relate to being handsome and masculine? You don't have to be a masculine m2f trans to have children. That sounds like an underhanded attack against Jen.

I have 3 children. I guess that places me on the averages of masculinity based on the above logic.

[Mahsa Tezani]

What does someone not wanting to post their pics have to do with intellect?

Also, how in the world does having six children relate to being handsome and masculine? You don't have to be a masculine m2f trans to have children. That sounds like an underhanded attack against Jen.

I have 3 children. I guess that places me on the averages of masculinity based on the above logic.

Annah. You look good.

I am just dropping my attacks against Jen61, not worth it.

[Annah]

i'm guessing your superior intellect is not in spelling?

kinda an immature response to a person's post, dontcha think?

If she is intelligent then she is. My God, what is it with this thread where people are trying to make others feel like sh*t? The topic is "How do men who knew you before treat you now?" Not, "Let's troll a person with half a dozen posts because she said she was intelligent." Are you all that offended that she would describe herself as smart or does everyone become more friendly, open, and accepting when other girls declare how miserable each other is?

I am in Mensa. Are people going to trash me and belittle me because I mentioned it? If I mentioned how my guy friends and brothers and cousins now see me as a female, will I get the same type of "put downs." Come on people.

[xxUltraModLadyxx]

kinda an immature response to a person's post, dontcha think?

If she is intelligent then she is. My God, what is it with this thread where people are trying to make others feel like sh*t? The topic is "How do men who knew you before treat you now?" Not, "Let's troll a person with half a dozen posts because she said she was intelligent. Are you all that offended that she would describe herself as smart or does everyone become more friendly when other girls declare how miserable each other is?

it was too humorous to pass up. similar to saying "i'm a lady," but then cursing up a storm.