Non-sexual relationships?

[Felix]

Oh yay. Thank you for the update. Navigating relationships while living with incongruent anatomy is a little daunting at times, so hearing your experience is great.

[Aintza]

I am a cis-woman, and my bf is FtM. We had a non-sexual relationship for almost two years. He felt worried about me refusing him. When I knew he was FtM, I have to recognize I felt anxious, because I had never known about trans people. But I love him and finally it was effortless to accept him exactly as he is.

We are starting to feel comfortable with our nakedness. By now, we always use a prosthesis but it is more because of his shyness than because of me.

I think the only important item you have to measure in your relationship is if he loves you. If he do, soon or later, you will learn to pleasure each other.

[Sharky]

Glad to hear things seem to be working out. Good luck.

[Konnor]

Thanks everyone!!! Your support means a lot

Aintza, I think your point about "I think the only important item you have to measure in your relationship is if he loves you. If he do, soon or later, you will learn to pleasure each other." is spot on, atleast in our situation. I'm really hoping we are going to find a way to be intimate and both be satisfied while working around my downstairs. So great to hear that you and your bf worked things out!!