Your first priority is to select a surgeon who takes your insurance, and lock in a date, i know Dr. Bowers takes insurance, as does Dr. Leis and a few others, Dr. Mcginn my surgeon does not, it did not matter as my insurance does not cover any GID surgeries, you need to select a surgeon soon if you want to make the 9 month window.
As far as hair removal down below, some surgeons recommend it and some say not to do get it, my surgeon recommended it so i did about 8 laser sessions and was fairly clear when i had my surgery, i would have had electrolysis if i could have found someone to do it, you need to discuss this when you have a consult, a friend went to my surgeon and had no hair removal and it was not a problem.
Paula