Please answer my question

[Carol12]

Hi I'm New in here and I want to ask if is normal with a young age was already finishing puberty because I started HRT at a young age and i already had in this age deeper voice,big hands,big feet and chest hair.I feel so sad because my puberty passed so fast,I cry every day thinking about it,the unique things that I avoid was beard and baldness but the rest now i have this male body with big hands and a big head i feel so disgusting , now because of this stupid fast puberty I'm planning to kill myself.
Early wasn't early enough.
Sorry if I wrote something wrong.

[MarinaM]

Well, how big is big? Things will sometimes be bigger simply due to family genetics. How do the other females in your family shape up?

[annette]

I had a sister in law  who was more than 6 feet of height, with bigger hands and feet than I have.
She was such an adorable woman and to be frankly, she was very elegant.
It's not hand or feet, it's how you are, how you present yourself, your behaviour, your voice, all these things makes you womanly.
If you are sure you're a woman than be a woman, you don't have anything to hide, like hand or feet or whatever, just BE a woman, that's enough.
So, safe yourself the trouble of thinking about suicide, there is no need for it, don't think about the stereotypically picture of a woman, small, everything is little with a high pitch in the voice, there are plenty of women who don't pass in that picture, so maybe you're one of them, that doesn't change the fact that you can be very womanly.

Does this answer your question?
I truly hope so, coz people do have more possibilities than they think.

[ClockworkAnna]

First off don't kill yourself there's lots of good things that can happen latter in life and it may be harder passing but doctors and meds can really do a lot this days. Not everything but a lot. And lots of female don't have the perfect body, try to accept who you are. That can be hard I admit but think abut all the fun stuff in lift.

[Nemo]

Hope you don't mind a guy chiming in here, but:

If my cousin cut her hair short and bound her breasts (like I have to), you'd think she was a guy. 6'+ tall, quite athletic build.. So not all cis-women are dainty, feminine beings; people come in all shapes and sizes.

If you hate your chest hair, shave it. Try some nail polish to pretty up your fingers and/or toes. Whatever will take the edge off these features you don't like to help you feel better about them. Sounds simplistic, but the little things can make you feel a lot better and more able to do other things

[chimera]

I have to agree with Nemo on this one. Most cisgirls have a few and some many masculine characteristics. I'm CIS and my spouse is MTF. I'm very feminine looking but I'm very boyish in my mannerisms. I'm tiny and girly looking but if you met me out and about you might think I was a lesbian because of my masculine personality. Not that all lesbians are masculine. Killing yourself wouldn't solve anything only keep you from reaching your true potential. Have a little faith!

[Felix]

Ditto what Nemo said. Keep an eye on females. Most of them aren't on television or in magazines.

And keep your head up. Be proud. It'll make you beautiful.