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S.O. took me on a Jenny Spree yesturday

Started by Jen-Jen, November 24, 2011, 03:40:52 AM

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My S.O.  decide to take me on a shopping spree the other day!    ;D We live in a small town, so we had to drive two hours to the big city. She wanted me to go out presenting as me!   :)  This was my first time out of the house as me!  :icon_help:   I was so excited but scared. Anyways I put on my snap it bracelet, some cute panties, my only pair of tight girly jeans and a t shirt!  She said I looked androgyny(made me feel good), which is  better than masculine. We went out to eat and i didn't get any stares, which was good, i was so scared to be out just like that. She took me to a hair salon to get a hair cut, I was getting really bushy and poofy  O0 since I have been growing my hair out (from a flat top razor fade, so its taking forever). To my surprise, there was another mtf at the same salon, getting highlights!  :o it was so nice, to not be alone. My new stylist is awesome not to mention such a cutey! She is so nice and was understanding of my needs.  My hair looks great I think, for now anyways. I still want it long so this is just and in between cut.  After my cut we drove to the mall, the first store I walked into was an accessory store, ooh they had so many cute things, I purchased a cute little ring with a blue heart stone, some pink & silver bangles, and a bracelet.  While I was looking around a lady walked up and handed me a little basket to fill with my items, :laugh: not even a strange look from her or any of the customers. My S.O. said she wanted to buy me some outfits, so we went down the line of stores! Our next store had some Dickies girl pants I wanted in the window, so we went in, we didn't buy the pants due to my style wasn't available.  But we did purchase matching  belts. Anyways the significance of this store was when I went up to pay for my items.The clerk was a boy in his twenties and his father, they both did a triple take on me, when they asked me for my I.d. to charge my credit card.  :o whoah ....wait what? I had to say yes that's me!  ::) Ha ha it was so funny! It gave me a confidence boost. My S.O. had brought some makeup along in just case I got brave. I asked her if we could go back to the car and put it on, it was only eyeshadow,mascera and lipgloss. So here I am wearing makeup now, in public!  :icon_eek: Wow.. was i nervous and shaking in my shoes. We walked back in the mall and walked into the famous shoe store, I found the cutest sneakers and some cute sketchers, I didn't even get a glance from the other customers or clerks, I was like " I can do this?"  :icon_dance: We then proceded to the JCpenny, were I found my dickies pants that I was looking for. I tried them on in the fitting room and wow....  did they make my butt look nice!  :icon_booty-nerd: Lol. Lets just say I bought three pairs.  ;D I also purchased some cute hoody jackets, same reactions here from customers, none.  :laugh: Ok we went to pay, the clerk and older lady asked my S.O. if this was here new wardrobe  :( she said yes to avoid anything. But this lady then also double took me,  :embarrassed: but she then read my name of my I.d. aloud.  ::) I didn't enjoy that, but so far she was the only one that really bugged, but she did compliment me. She said i looked 18 not 27....yay!   :eusa_dance: We then went over to Sally's and purchased a hair straightener. They guy clerk gave me no trouble or a weird look. Well before i ramble on and on,   :icon_blahblah:  oops did that!  ::) I kid you not, there was not one clothes or accessory store we didn't purchase from. I got three dickies form fitting pants, two pairs shoes, a bra, 2 sets bangles, two cute rings,necklace,and some spaget ti straps and tees (like 12 total).  ;D pretty awesome! Over all a fantastic day and confidence,self esteem boost.    :icon_boogy: My S.O. was super excited through it all!  :icon_tetter: I just came out to her six months ago. She has called me Jenny and has used female pronouns from day one, I came out to her.  She also calls me her little princess, I love it!  :icon_chick:
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Tyler

What an amazing story! Brought a big smile to my face! It's exciting to fit in with everyone, and feel right!  ;D
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Sirenia

Awesome story, grinned the whole time reading it. ;D I am a little jelous, though. It's going to take at least a year for me to be able to do what you did :-\ . Not to mention mustering up the courage. ::) And even then I may totally not pass.

Happy for you, though! :D Always nice to see a sister going out there as their true self and loving it.
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Jen-Jen

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Quote from: Tyler on November 24, 2011, 03:58:28 AM
What an amazing story! Brought a big smile to my face! It's exciting to fit in with everyone, and feel right!  ;D
yes it was amazing, I'm glad it brought a smile to your face. It is very exciting to fit in and feel right, but I was still too worried of being looked at or commented, they I didn't enjoy it to its fullest intent. Maybe next time!


Quote from: Sirenia on November 24, 2011, 04:32:29 AM
Awesome story, grinned the whole time reading it. ;D I am a little jealous, though. It's going to take at least a year for me to be able to do what you did :-\ . Not to mention mustering up the courage. ::) And even then I may totally not pass.

Happy for you, though! :D Always nice to see a sister going out there as their true self and loving it.
Why at least a year? If you don't mind me asking. Oh courage yes, it takes alot! I have faced alot of scary things in my career but, going out as me takes the cake bar none! But I am positive you will muster it up. I don't think I totally pass at all! I am not on hrt. Here's a pic. [Img]


Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Sirenia

Phuh. You actually looked slightly similar to what I look like currently (apart from the awesome darker skin). Doubt I'll get good results out of it, though D: I'm just not hopeful about it. How long have you been on HRT?
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: Sirenia on November 24, 2011, 05:43:02 AM
Phuh. You actually looked slightly similar to what I look like currently (apart from the awesome darker skin). Doubt I'll get good results out of it, though D: I'm just not hopeful about it. How long have you been on HRT?
phuh? Is that good or bad phuh? ??? I actually hatea my darker skin, I wish I was more ivory skinned and blonde! I am very hopeful!  I'm not on HRT you kidding me I haven't even seen a therapist. I am still pretty much pre-everything.
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Sirenia

It was a slightly surprised, good 'phuh'. c:

You're not even on ... ? Sheesh n.n If I tried to pass as I am, I'd get stared and laughed at. :( You must look very feminine in person (which I can't tell from the picture since they almost never do justice).
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: Sirenia on November 24, 2011, 06:09:06 AM
It was a slightly surprised, good 'phuh'. c:

You're not even on ... ? Sheesh n.n If I tried to pass as I am, I'd get stared and laughed at. :( You must look very feminine in person (which I can't tell from the picture since they almost never do justice).
I thought I was going to get stared and laughed at especially when I put the make up on! Yeah its not a good pic, stupid phone.  I don't know if I look femme at all. Here is a closer pic but no make up.
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Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Sirenia

I can definitely see many feminine features in that face. No wonder you passed :D Anyway, I apologise for completely derailing your thread. *Engage stalker mode.*

Keep on being awesome. ;D
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: Sirenia on November 24, 2011, 06:36:24 AM
I can definitely see many feminine features in that face. No wonder you passed :D Anyway, I apologise for completely derailing your thread. *Engage stalker mode.*

Keep on being awesome. ;D
No apology needed! No derailing at all!  I actually enjoyed all your replies .Thank you for your replies and the compliment.
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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stldrmgrl

This is an awesome story, Jenny!  I am happy for you!  :)
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tekla

Perfect day for it, the malls I went through yesterday were dead, it was so not happening out there in retail land, guess everyone was waiting until Friday.  Safeway however.... couldn't get near one.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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LivingInGrey

It's good to hear stories like this. My S.O. has been great with me (though slow to come around) and has taken me out a few times to pick up bras and stuff.

I haven't left the house fully dressed but she has let me pick up a few clothes and had me model them for her.

Happy days Jenny.
(ROCK) ---> ME <--- (HARD PLACE)
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Jen-Jen

Quote from: stldrmgrl on November 24, 2011, 08:27:47 AM
This is an awesome story, Jenny!  I am happy for you!  :)
thank you


Quote from: LivingInGrey on November 24, 2011, 10:32:12 AM
It's good to hear stories like this. My S.O. has been great with me (though slow to come around) and has taken me out a few times to pick up bras and stuff.

I haven't left the house fully dressed but she has let me pick up a few clothes and had me model them for her.

Happy days Jenny.
It is! I read them herae as much as I can,  I never expectes to write one myself. I am happy your S.O. is coming around to it even if its slow, hey its a start.  I got my first bra that day. When I put it on it was just awesome. What does she think when you model them for her?
Don't judge a book by its cover! My lifes been like a country song! True love, amazing grace, severe heartbreak, buckles, boots n spurs! I 've been thrown off the bull a couple times, I keep getting up and dusting myself off! Can't give up on my happily ever after!
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Forever21Chic

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