Need to get this out

[Wesley_33]

For all you guys having a hard time of things cause of someone else...

Guess what 

You are AWESOME no matter what they say. 

You have every right to be as happy as everyone else in life.

You are worthy of being loved and someone will come along and do just that.

Don't let someone elses hate or misunderstanding keep you down. Be a bigger person hold your head high and keep moving on. Leave them in your dust as you become the amazing person they can't be.

I'm just so tired of coming here and reading how you are questioning yourself cause someone calls you by birth name, says you'll never be a man cause you don't have right parts, or your gf/bf isn't supportive so you won't transition for their happieness. Those are all crap reasons for you to keep being upset or unhappy in your life.

[Jasper1408]

You rock, Wesley. I'm certain there are tons of people that needed to hear that.

[AdamMLP]

Thanks bro, I needed a pick me up

[caseyy]

Thanks Wesley.

[Darrin Scott]

Thanks man. Need this today.

[supremecatoverlord]

Thanks.
Just for saying this, you seem really awesome too.
:]

[Wesley_33]

I really mean all this too. I'm not just saying it to blow smoke up anyones ass. 

If you can't be positive for yourself who else is going to be? If you keep letting others get to you they win. Who wants to be a loser? Not this guy for damn sure.

Start each day off knowing you are one badass guy!! Kick each day in the butt and don't take crap from anyone. You are worth so much more than some feeling sorry for yourself stuff cause others are trying to make you.

[Tossu-sama]

Man, you speak true words of wisdom. I bet there are many people who need that kind of encouraging.

[Wesley_33]

Come on guys if you keep feeling all sorry for youself who else is going to make you life better?!?! Really lets stop with the freaking pitty party for ourselves and get the hell on with things. Damn guys hold your head up high and be a man about it. Stop hiding cause of whatever reason and be you.

The only person holding you back is you. Get the hell of the pitty wagon. Reach down grab hold and take charge of your life.

Now huddle round hands in and on count of 3 yell I CAN DO IT

1...2...3...

[Troy]

Thanks for the encouragement Wesley. What you said is so true. You are pretty awesome too.

Troy

[vik2ray]

awsome thanks man, i needed that today.

[Wesley_33]

All I ask is that you keep the good going. Don't let that one butthead bring your day down. Dig down and be a better person and let life handle that butthead. Walk away with a smile knowing karma will get them. Now karma will get you too but be sure its for all the good you've done.

[Felix]

Thanks Wesley.

[Wesley_33]

http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/

[fatalerror]

http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/

Just read that article recently and I love it!

Also love your post. I'm not in transition yet but my fear of losing my family and some of my friends is a tough thing to cope with, society can be harsh but you have to do what's right for yourself sometimes!