"but as the years go on, your testosterone levels drop and Debbie was coming more and more to the forefront"
*SIGH* The nonsense some MTF's can proclaim....if it really was like 'testosterone blahblah'........then why not go on testosterone therapy and keep Tony on 'the forefront' and Debbie 'inside'?
That should have saved a lot of trouble and 2(!) disappointed ex wives.