Bad day, My first regection

[Jennifer.L]

Well ->-bleeped-<- gang.  I jsut go told that one of my freinds is "not comfortable with you coming out as a women"  I mean I know my brother is NOT ok with me.  and my dad is scetchy at best.  But I never really counted them as rejections.  Hell I knew it would happen, but why does it hurt so much.  I mean I dont even know for sure Who it is.

I've written to the guy that let me know and you know what.  ->-bleeped-<- that prick that doesn't like me. By not telling me them self, they make me dough everyone.  And I don't have to dought the 9 perfectly great friends jsut because 1 of them doesn't like me.  I mean it's not like the other 9 feel the same way.  So I'm gonna treat them all like they are still my friends and not a coward.

God F**** S****  All I want is friends, to be who I am, and a little adventure from time to time.  Is that to much to ask. 

[Beep]

Don't worry about the occasional closed-minded, ignorant person. You're very courageous to live as a woman in front of your friends before using hormone replacement, and as time goes on, you will look more and more feminine anyways. Maybe a few months down the road that person will finally understand who you really are.
Keep your dreams alive, and be strong!

[Emily Ray]

You are such a brave soul! I think you have a good plan. The coward will soon out himself or have a change in heart. You will make so many more new friends who only know you as a girl and those friendships will be priceless. It may take some time, but I know it will happen for you.

Huggs

Emily

[lilacwoman]

you have a perfect right to come out and be yourself...but you will find that transitioning does mean you leave a lot of old life behind.