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Help - I am feeling like a cougar!

Started by MsDazzler, December 05, 2011, 07:54:26 AM

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Jayr

Quote from: SandraJane on December 05, 2011, 08:10:22 AM
WHAT"S WRONG WITH BEING A COUGAR?


Note- I don't discriminate based on age! :laugh:

Exactly what I'm thinking!
Nothing wrong with being a cougar.
Plenty of cubs to go around xP





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Jaime

I don't think just because its an older woman with a young man that it makes her a cougar. Its the act of aggressively preying on young men for sex by some older women(usually 40+) that makes one a cougar. Hence the name itself being of a predator.
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Emily Ray

Jamie,

I have to disagree, if a 40 year old or older woman is dating a 20 year old young man it can only be for sex. They certainly can't talk about their favorite 8-track or album growing up. I am not saying anything is wrong with it. Both are consenting adults and are getting just what they want from the relationship.

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Emily
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Bridal Wish

theres nothing wrong with being a cougar! most guys i seem to like the age difference is... quite terrifiing
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Jaime

Emily,
Umm, I said "aggressively preying" for one thing, not every older woman that has sex with a younger man acted as a predator to get into that situation.  And secondly, an older woman can indeed be with a young man for more than just sex. Commonalities don't have to be based on growing up in the same era, there are many other things that could be involved. Heck. for that matter, there doesn't have to be that much in common other than they just want to be together for whatever reason outside of just sex.

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fionabell

I'm a cougar. I don't know what these young guys are on about chasing after old bags like us but it's not all bad.
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El

If you catch good fish with old bait you would be a fool to throw them back ;)

(disclaimer: trying to make a funny analogy, not calling anyone old bait xD i would be offended if i got called old bait so i thought i better clarify xD)
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SandraJane

Rather than post quotes from "ya'll", Old Bait is still good bait, its aged, more character and flavor!

Sure a Cougar is a Predator, but we do it with style! And yes, it can be more than sex, as a guy I liked older women, so now I'm the older woman :laugh:
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A

I think most people will find young (~18-25~) people at least as attractive as older people, and more often than not, more attractive. People are made like that: their body hasn't started to "decompose" due to age in those age ranges, so obviously, they're supposed to look better.

The difference is that most older people would not appreciate their partners' youth for its moral aspects - irressponsibility, impulsivity, high sex drive, etc. Or fear the social stigma. But I don't think the physical attraction to a young, fit body is frequently absent.

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Joeyboo~ :3

Quote from: Jayr on December 11, 2011, 01:20:33 PM
Exactly what I'm thinking!
Nothing wrong with being a cougar.
Plenty of cubs to go around xP

xD you ain't no cub, boy!

You are "Personal and sexual property of Joey Giron"
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Jennifer

Quote from: SandraJane on December 11, 2011, 06:28:20 PM
Old Bait is still good bait, its aged, more character and flavor!



MATURE BAIT! :)

Jennifer
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Mahsa Tezani

Quote from: fionabell on December 11, 2011, 05:46:50 PM
I'm a cougar. I don't know what these young guys are on about chasing after old bags like us but it's not all bad.

Younger guys have sex drives that last. Older guys, not so much... Dating a 51 yr old has its downside as his bed performance...He gets super tired after sex. Young guys don't.
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Felix

Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on December 12, 2011, 04:22:21 PM
Younger guys have sex drives that last. Older guys, not so much... Dating a 51 yr old has its downside as his bed performance...He gets super tired after sex. Young guys don't.

On the flipside, young guys tend to orgasm way too fast. I like both. I play with young people, and it's great fun, but I have more nuanced and interesting sex with older guys. They last longer. Sometimes they can't get off at all, though, which makes me feel sad and inadequate no matter what they say.
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MsDazzler

And feeling the young guy's skin compared to the older guy's skin feels so different when you are stratching their backs while they are doing you missionary style, lol
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Felix

Quote from: MsDazzler on December 17, 2011, 10:44:21 AM
And feeling the young guy's skin compared to the older guy's skin feels so different when you are stratching their backs while they are doing you missionary style, lol

Young skin is fantastic. :)
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