Betrayal<sp?>

[LynnER]

Lynn,

Let it go.  Get your car and get your face out of there. You've been on that picket fence too long.  I'm thinking that youve been piked into place!

Cindi

Yeah, it seems that way to me too sometimes...  But I'll be though with this place soon enough and wont look back as I leave it all behind.  I'm just trying to make money while waiting for my car so I can split 

[Rachel]

Lynn,

Let it go.  Get your car and get your face out of there. You've been on that picket fence too long.  I'm thinking that youve been piked into place!

Cindi

Yeah, it seems that way to me too sometimes...  But I'll be though with this place soon enough and wont look back as I leave it all behind.  I'm just trying to make money while waiting for my car so I can split 

i understand wanting to leave a place, i want to move back to the coast myself

[LostInTime]

Sorry to read that had happened to you. 

Many of us have said that this journey really shows us who our friends are or are not.

Hugs,
LIT

[angelsgirl]

Hmph! That onion-eyed dweeb! That pustulant canker-blossom! THUNDERING DINKUS!

You're way to good for him! *muttering* Go in DRAB? Are you kidding me? You're far too pretty to even try to pull that off anymore! And why should you? You shouldn't, of course!

Sounds like he wouldn't know a good friend if he shat one!

Ignore his calls and if you see him anywhere just throw a slight glare, toss your hair, spin on your heel and walk away. That oughta piss him off.

Smurfs are creepy little buggers anyways.

[littlegreenfly]

I always suggest forgiveness... because dwelling on stuff holds you far more captive than it does the other party.  Now, saying that..., forgiveness does not neccessarily mean reconciliation.

Also, really forgiving a rotter... can be cleansing.  Revenge just leads to bitterness, and no one is worth the toll that will take on your psyche.

So, forgive and walk away.... Really, who cares if he gets it or not... isn't your problem any more.

LGF

[LynnER]

Vengence is generaly a nice thought, but I would never go through with it  *Shrugs*  you all are right and hes not worth my time...  I blocked his number rather than just ignoreing his calls...  and when he comes to my house I'll just pretend not to be there...  I dont want to see or deal with him.  Though If I do see him in public he will be victem of my full contempt... but thats it.

and yeah, I dont think its possable to pass as a guy in Drab anymore either...  I mean seriously...



even with out the enhancers Im a very solid LARGE A... and on my frame you cant hide that with just a shirt.

PS: Yes, I do have to show this pic every chance I get... Im proud of it

[angelsgirl]

OMG! You've really blossomed, haven't you? Good for you!

Not only can you not pass as a guy in drab anymore, it would be a shame to hide yourself now!

[BeverlyAnn]

Yes, I do have to show this pic every chance I get... Im proud of it

You should be proud of it.  And yeah, give up any idea of drab, it ain't happenin'.

Beverly

[Rachel]

and yeah, I dont think its possable to pass as a guy in Drab anymore either...

NO DRAB FOR YOU

[cindianna_jones]

Lynn is getting to be seriously cute!  OMG, I can't believe how you have changed!

Cindi

[Dennis]

That is an awesome pic, Lynn. You look great.

I can't remember if I've posted on this thread or not (too lazy to look back). I have read it a couple of times and been too outraged to trust myself to post. That behaviour of your friend is unacceptable. I don't know how I'd react if a friend wanted me to do drag. I do have one friend who refuses to get the pronouns right (claims she "can't", which has some credence, because 20 years later she still calls a friend who changed her name by her former name). My response was that she may come to my house, but we are not going out in public together. Ever. If she even thought about insisting I do drag, I would cut her out of my life without hesitation.

Dennis

[littlegreenfly]

Great pic Lynn.  I agree with folks here... don't see you passing as a gentleman at this point.

LGF

P.S.
Just 2 more cents from me... I wouldn't bother showing your former friend contempt... again, too much negative energy and damage to your own psyche.  It might be far more profitable for you to treat him as a stranger.  I am polite/show common courtesy with strangers, but often do not engage.  He may not deserve that, but you do.