Let's say that a transgender woman goes through her transition, has FFS, GRS, and by the third year, she passes beautifully. She's actually pretty and nobody can tell she was ever in a guy's body. Yea, she's tall (5'11) and some of her features are bigger than usual GGs (like her size 11 feet), but she doesn't look like a linebacker. She's relatively thin, she's relatively youngish (30, 31), and she dresses in a trendy way. Long hair, tan, makeup, nice breasts. She looks pretty damn good, and it took a LOT of work and time to get here.
Now, she's in a new place in life. She's just beginning to enjoy her new life as a woman - bubble baths, feeling her new body, experiencing orgasms for the first time as a woman. Then, let's say, one day her sink doesn't work right and she needs a plumber... so in walks this hunky plumber who's right around her age and instantly there is an attraction. He fixes her sink and it gives this woman an opportunity to talk to a guy she's never met before. He likes her and asks her out on a date.
Alright, so now what happens? When do you tell him, you have to tell him but when? You really want to have sex with him, but you do want a relationship... what do you do??? You really like this man, he has no clue about who you are, and you desperately want a relationship and this one seems perfect. How can you tell him without scaring him off?