Karen, when I changed my name and gender on my license and title on both my cars, it took just about as long. I had no problem and the people I talked to about this, said I was going to have problems and this and that. I went in and it was done. I had to wait until my registration was sent back to me as it went to Salem, Or. My drivers license was a done deal right there, just like yours. I didn't cause any problems and I had all the necessary paperwork filled out and all my letters and my court document that said I had changed my name. It was really easy and I thought I was going to have problems. My whole transition was that way, people would say negative things about this and that, but I got it done with ease, everything. So, I just kind of blow off all those naysayers and I know that it can be done. Just don't look for trouble and you won't find it.
Sheila