I am proud of myself for what I have accomplished, without being vain about it.
I am a bit subtle about being out about my sexual orientation, wearing the odd piece of rainbow jewellery, thumb and pinky rings that identify me as a dyke, (love the tattoo idea Mahsa, I am going to steal it!) but not about being trans. I just couldn't be bothered explaining all the time.
Once I get to know someone I will out myself fairly early, but that is different.