Heterosexual women: What kind of guy dates you?

[Mahsa Tezani]

Like basically what "stereotype" of men dates you. Describe your style too.

I basically date stoners, homes, skaters, rockers, hippies. Guys who know maryJ, love nature, goin on hikes, watchin sports, etc. They all fall underneath the universal title of "BRO".

It's weird, cuz my long term boyfriend is such the exact opposite. He's a dorky guy who never does anything remotely fun. Meanwhile, I would go out to reggae & jazz fests, to the beach, to SF's illusive hippy hill.

My style is basically California style... I keep thinking I should live in SoCal. NorCal is very "hipster"...where as SoCal has a lot of the cliches from the film "Valley Girl". I'd rather live down there than SF. But oh well.

[Joeyboo~ :3]

White guys always hit on me lawl.

Usually the ones with straightened shaggy hair or "emo" hair. (Even though their style is NOT emo at all.)
Their personalities are the humorous type that spends too much time on 4chan and/or tumblr.
95% of them smoked weed or did some type of drug.
They like heavy music with all that piercing screaming.

[Sad Girl]

Whatever/whoever handsome straight guy that comes in front of me I will grab, as long he is not a ->-bleeped-<--->-bleeped-<- searching for me for my pre-op penis that I hate so much.

[Mahsa Tezani]

Whatever/whoever handsome straight guy that comes in front of me I will grab, as long he is not a ->-bleeped-<--->-bleeped-<- searching for me for my pre-op penis that I hate so much.

95% of the men I've met want my sweet sweet mythical VJay.

But I throw the ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s a boner every once in awhile. They are people too. But clearly you and I don't share the same sentiments about that and I totally respect that.

[Sad Girl]

95% of the men I've met want my sweet sweet mythical VJay.

But I throw the ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s a boner every once in awhile. They are people too. But clearly you and I don't share the same sentiments about that and I totally respect that.

I make VERY rare exceptions for ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<- if he's really VERY handsome and looks hyper-masculine and he should behave and not try to touch my hated part, worse, not try to be bottom with me. omg I freak out as hell with the passive-->-bleeped-<-s. So if there is a ->-bleeped-<- out there, he needs to play the active, straight role or best not tell me he is ->-bleeped-<- who wants my...EWWW!

[Mahsa Tezani]

I make VERY rare exceptions for ->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<- if he's really VERY handsome and looks hyper-masculine and he should behave and not try to touch my hated part, worse, not try to be bottom with me. omg I freak out as hell with the passive-->-bleeped-<-s. So if there is a ->-bleeped-<- out there, he needs to play the active, straight role or best not tell me he is ->-bleeped-<- who wants my...EWWW!

There will still be ->-bleeped-<-s after srs... A lot of the characteristics are still retained.

I think a man who is open to transsexual women as he is to genetic women is still a ->-bleeped-<- on some level. Straight men don't typically date transgirls...It's unfortunate. But as a former gay man, I may find a lot of ftms hot...But the idea of a vagina in a long term relationship isn't for me.

I'd aim for a open minded straight or straight-bi guy.

[Sad Girl]

There will still be ->-bleeped-<-s after srs... A lot of the characteristics are still retained.

I think a man who is open to transsexual women as he is to genetic women is still a ->-bleeped-<- on some level. Straight men don't typically date transgirls...It's unfortunate. But as a former gay man, I may find a lot of ftms hot...But the idea of a vagina in a long term relationship isn't for me.

I'd aim for a open minded straight or straight-bi guy.

This is MY biggest problem, I get attracted ONLY by the 'strict straight' guys and most of them are transphobic and most of them don't know I am a pre-op trans and think I am a bio girl and I generally get stuck at the 'oral level' and all excuses I have not to go further. I crave to do the SRS at once, am suffering too much as I am in denial. If I saying I am trans, I always get rejected, so better shut up. And I'm not ->-bleeped-<-ing crazy and stupid who like revealing they are transgirl to strict straight men. It's so crazy for a beautiful post-op passable girls revealing to a straight men she is trans. For a long-term relationship I think we should tell the truth but as me I'm a short-term girl only, I don't find the necessity. Maybe some will accept us as we are but MAJORITY WILL NOT. I've got TOO MUCH REJECTION AND ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I don't care I'm living in lies, at least I'm happy in my lies that I can get men I want. And to those men dare saying we are bad and cheating them, not our fault if they are BIGOTS! A TOOTH FOR A TOOTH!!!

[MsDazzler]

This is MY biggest problem, I get attracted ONLY by the 'strict straight' guys and most of them are transphobic and most of them don't know I am a pre-op trans and think I am a bio girl and I generally get stuck at the 'oral level' and all excuses I have not to go further. I crave to do the SRS at once, am suffering too much as I am in denial. If I saying I am trans, I always get rejected, so better shut up. And I'm not ->-bleeped-<-ing crazy and stupid who like revealing they are transgirl to strict straight men. It's so crazy for a beautiful post-op passable girls revealing to a straight men she is trans. For a long-term relationship I think we should tell the truth but as me I'm a short-term girl only, I don't find the necessity. Maybe some will accept us as we are but MAJORITY WILL NOT. I've got TOO MUCH REJECTION AND ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I don't care I'm living in lies, at least I'm happy in my lies that I can get men I want. And to those men dare saying we are bad and cheating them, not our fault if they are BIGOTS! A TOOTH FOR A TOOTH!!!

I feel your pain, I really do. I went through that stage years ago where I would hide my trans status in order to land a man or to keep the guy's interest. That caused me a lot of headaches and sorrow.

Nowadays, I prefer to be upfront - why waste so much time and energy to hide it?

IMHO, I would rather be chased for my genitalia than trying to hide it all time - and if the guy leaves me after SRS (which is a myth, by the way, men do not leave you automatically after SRS if they really love you that much), then he was not a keeper anyway and at least I've gotten free dinners, jewerly, or whatnot during the deal, heh.

[MsDazzler]

There will still be ->-bleeped-<-s after srs... A lot of the characteristics are still retained.

I think a man who is open to transsexual women as he is to genetic women is still a ->-bleeped-<- on some level. Straight men don't typically date transgirls...It's unfortunate. But as a former gay man, I may find a lot of ftms hot...But the idea of a vagina in a long term relationship isn't for me.

I'd aim for a open minded straight or straight-bi guy.

Exactly - it is a myth that men will leave you after you get SRS! Some may do, but it is not a guarantee.

Yeah, the more i date, the more i realize i prefer straight guys that border on being bi. they have way less hangups and babbage than the "100%" straight guys.

[MsDazzler]

I attract all kind of guys, including creeps 

But I am typically attracted to the clean-cut, traditionally masculine, and macho guy with a sensitive side. Gruff and protective on outside and in public, but a honeybear in private and the bedroom, heh.

[Mahsa Tezani]

I attract all kind of guys, including creeps 

But I am typically attracted to the clean-cut, traditionally masculine, and macho guy with a sensitive side. Gruff and protective on outside and in public, but a honeybear in private and the bedroom, heh.

Love the new profile pic.

But yay for clean cut men!

[MsDazzler]

Love the new profile pic.

But yay for clean cut men!

thanks - i can't wait for my own real hair to grow out to that length of the wig!

Lately, I've got those Mex guys hitting on me whenever I go out shopping in my heavily-populated Mex neighborhood. Sup with that??

[Mahsa Tezani]

thanks - i can't wait for my own real hair to grow out to that length of the wig!

Lately, I've got those Mex guys hitting on me whenever I go out shopping in my heavily-populated Mex neighborhood. Sup with that??

I live in CV and Mexican guys hit on me a lot. They like pretty girls. LOL

I mean if drunk and border boys are hitting on you it's a good sign. I mean people here complain about those types here.

*prepares to be smited*

[MsDazzler]

I live in CV and Mexican guys hit on me a lot. They like pretty girls. LOL

I mean if drunk and border boys are hitting on you it's a good sign. I mean people here complain about those types here.

*prepares to be smited*

lol, i ve entered some mex bars around here - i never realized that so many natal Mex females can look trans - they tend to wear excessive makeup and falsies, have somewhat andro body shapes, and generally masculine features.

or maybe i was actually clocking them as trans and thinkiing they were natal heh

[Joeyboo~ :3]

lol, i ve entered some mex bars around here - i never realized that so many natal Mex females can look trans - they tend to wear excessive makeup and falsies, have somewhat andro body shapes, and generally masculine features.

That's really true.
Big-ish skulls and hard square jaw lines, it can be mind-fu*king o:
Natal or trans, atleast I feel like I don't look too out of the ordinary

[Mahsa Tezani]

lol, i ve entered some mex bars around here - i never realized that so many natal Mex females can look trans - they tend to wear excessive makeup and falsies, have somewhat andro body shapes, and generally masculine features.

or maybe i was actually clocking them as trans and thinkiing they were natal heh

I've seen a few HTM in Hayward. I mean I know they are biogirls...But damn, they put some drags to shame.

I am half Persian...so I think my "unclockable" race gives me an advantage. Of course, in my normal day to day mode...I don't wear that much makeup beyond c/h and eyeliner. Just eye makeup and even then...I switch it up(currently in cat eye mode)

Rather have drunk/stoned guys hitting on me than saying, "look at that f*g!"

[MsDazzler]

I've seen a few HTM in Hayward. I mean I know they are biogirls...But damn, they put some drags to shame.

I am half Persian...so I think my "unclockable" race gives me an advantage. Of course, in my normal day to day mode...I don't wear that much makeup beyond c/h and eyeliner. Just eye makeup and even then...I switch it up(currently in cat eye mode)

Rather have drunk/stoned guys hitting on me than saying, "look at that f*g!"

cat eye mode, eh? i love me smokey

[Mahsa Tezani]

cat eye mode, eh? i love me smokey

Goin for a more minimal look. Asha was right...I look like a ->-bleeped-<-. LMAO

But really...I attracted more men with just minimal makeup instead of doing the smokey eye or the heavy eyeliner.

[MsDazzler]

Goin for a more minimal look. Asha was right...I look like a ->-bleeped-<-. LMAO

But really...I attracted more men with just minimal makeup instead of doing the smokey eye or the heavy eyeliner.

Yeah.. I notice i get hit on by guys way more when wearing glasses and minimal makeup and my hair in a bun on the bus or train.

The only time i get hit on if I do smokey is in bars or modeling lingerie for a man. lol

[MsDazzler]

I forgot to add -

I am dreaming of a Prince Charming to come and sweep me off my feet... and we ride off in the sunset, happily-ever-after.

I was a sucker for those Disney princesses growing up - Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty...

hell, I even got those princesses as Barbie dolls. lol