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strange rules of attraction?

Started by Madison (kiara jamie), January 01, 2012, 10:36:46 PM

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Madison (kiara jamie)

so last nights shenanigans warranted new learning experiences, so just to start it out i was at a pub with a friend, i still present as male, so i met this woman that told me that she found my face to have a very desirable shape and that she said my eyes were beautiful, later i found out that she was a lesbian, and when i told her that i was transgendered that she said she already believed i was, she told me that she had a strange attraction towards me that she couldn't at first understand.
so later that night we ended up going to the gay bar, now im not attracted to men and since i have long feminine hair i don't have many men that find me attractive at first glance, but the lesbians seem to find me attractive, last night i constantly have them approaching me and telling me that they find me strangely attractive

im just wondering if anyone else has found when presenting as male that people find them attractive as a female?


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MsDazzler

Sigh... I m betting you ll get a lot of love on this thread because it is lesbian-related, not gay-related  :D
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kelly_aus

Quote from: kiaraja on January 01, 2012, 10:36:46 PM
im just wondering if anyone else has found when presenting as male that people find them attractive as a female?


I have a friend who is a lesbian, and when I came out to her she admitted that she'd been attracted to me back when we first met - a time I most definitely presenting as a guy.. She also admitted that she'd always been a little confused by it, but it all made sense when I came out..

On the flip side, I found a fair few gay guys would be initially attracted to me (as a guy) and then when we got a little closer, they'd suddenly realise something was not quite right..  Talking to a few of my exBF's enabled me to find out why.. Most of them could see right through me...
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MacKenzie


  Idk I havent had any lesbian women hit on me since coming out as trans but i've had a few curious men flirt around with me lol!
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Guantanamera

I've always assumed that it was easier to pick up men than women being trans.

Who knows, maybe I've been casting my net in the wrong pond.  ???
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Madison (kiara jamie)

Quote from: kelly_aus on January 01, 2012, 11:37:51 PM

On the flip side, I found a fair few gay guys would be initially attracted to me (as a guy) and then when we got a little closer, they'd suddenly realise something was not quite right..  Talking to a few of my exBF's enabled me to find out why.. Most of them could see right through me...

ya i get the same response to gay men also, they look at me approach then confusion, and then usually make a different comment then they were going to make and leave, lol but i did have one girl tell me that no matter what gender i was trying to attract, that i was not going home alone if i chose that, but im not a slut so meh lols


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Mahsa Tezani

You're a lesbian? I guess you learn something new everyday.  :o

Gay guys ignore me at the gay bar. I am just some girl there.

I don't have any experience with lezzies. I had two of them into me last year...But wasn't willing to put forth the effort and call them.
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