Hi there...
To the question of using a "Gaff" or not...
I've been wearing a gaff to hide "the boys"
for about ten years, and I think that it's a
great method for doing so.
I've only needed to buy 4 of them in all that time.
They cost about $20. each, and I got mine from
www.thebreastformstore.com, where I also got
several wonderful and affordable sets of silicone
breastforms and breastform bras ( the best bra:
the Amoena Ava 2115 ). Their gaffs are well-
made, with a nice stretch-satin outer layer and a
comfortable cotton inner layer, made strongly
for long-term durability as well.
I wear them one size smaller than my actual size
for a tight, secure fit, and wear 2 at once ( a flesh-
tone one under and a black one over that ) to
provide a really smooth look while giving extra
"security" for the placement of my "stuff".
I use the internal "tuck" to conceal those two
nutty things and pull the tubular item way back
and under... then pull up the 1st gaff, making
sure everything's in-place, then pull up the 2nd
gaff really hard over that. I follow up with a tight
pair of panties ( or two ), and I'm set for the day!
Comfy & secure... you can sleep this way, too,
and nothing will move "out" of their place.
You can walk, run, swim, whatever, and
the "guys" will not come out or show at all.
The longer you use a gaff like I've described, the
easier and more comfortable it is to do.
So, let's just say that the gaff is a good thing
for us girls who desire a completely invisible
"package".
Note: Wearing a gaff in this way will destroy
your ability to produce sperm over time...
it keeps the testicular temperature too
high for those pups to survive and you'll
eventually become sterile if you wear your
gaff for long periods of time on a daily
basis. ...But that can be a good thing, if
you don't have any need to reproduce,
and reject any masculinity anyway.
I definitely recommend you try wearing a gaff
to achieve a totally feminine contour for your
"package" area.