I agree with Kate G. I think you want to use your hair to help soften your look. Can it fluff out around your face? Also, a straight part is more masculine.
I don't know what your situation is, but you might be able to enlist the help of your hairdresser. When I started out mine had been cutting my hair for about a year while I was still in male mode, so I came out to her as transgender. She got really excited at the opportunity to use her skills to make me look more feminine. You don't necessarily have to come out to your hairdresser if you don't already know her. You can just say that you're tired of looking so masculine and wonder if she can make you look more feminine.
- Kate (another one)