Kia Ora HP,

In my 'opinion'...................................

Sadly the sex industry is for the most part one of the only industries that does not discriminate against trans-people...And for many it was/is the only means of surviving ['survival money'] plus it was for some [and no doubt still is] a quick way to get money together for surgery...

And just like cis women, there are trans-women who sleep around, but for some trans-women it is a way to affirm their 'female' gender identity that is, to be seen by some men as desirable, sexy, and this no doubt makes them feel more 'like a woman' so to speak...[Mind you some may just like 'sex' and plenty of it]

Some media outlet's portrayal of trans-women can at times add to this misconception...

And if I remember rightly you yourself have said people you know have said you 'dress' like a prostitute-this does not remove the misconception that you want to dispel, [Even if you are not one...You are 'guilty' by association, be it if only in 'dress sense']...However in saying this I do believe one should be able to wear what one feels comfortable wearing, but in doing so one must also reap what they sow [or in this case 'sew']...
Metta Zenda