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Started by Jennifer.L, January 06, 2012, 03:52:36 PM

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Jennifer.L

January 06, 2012, 03:52:36 PM
So ok I'm going to be going out with this amazing girl when I get home.  We hit it off great on Plenty of fish.  But I have no intrest in bringing up being trans.  Like ever if I could, but it's going to come up.  I want to wait long enough that she knows me for me.  You know so she doesn't think I'm jsut a CD thats playing games with her or something weird.  I've met a few girls on the site and I told the first one I thought I was clicking with before we had met in person.  that was months ago and I was really trying to jsut be strait about it.  But now I think I shouldn't talk about it because, well to me it's a temporary thing.  After SRS  I never want to go back or do anything as Him.  So if I talk about it early on it's kind of like irrelevant.

What do you think is a good plan for if and when to talk about it?  I'm pretty sure it will come up eventully.  One of my old friends will say something, or she will see a picture or something.
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MsDazzler

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January 06, 2012, 04:18:53 PM
Quote from: Jennifer.L on January 06, 2012, 03:52:36 PM
So ok I'm going to be going out with this amazing girl when I get home.  We hit it off great on Plenty of fish.  But I have no intrest in bringing up being trans.  Like ever if I could, but it's going to come up.  I want to wait long enough that she knows me for me.  You know so she doesn't think I'm jsut a CD thats playing games with her or something weird.  I've met a few girls on the site and I told the first one I thought I was clicking with before we had met in person.  that was months ago and I was really trying to jsut be strait about it.  But now I think I shouldn't talk about it because, well to me it's a temporary thing.  After SRS  I never want to go back or do anything as Him.  So if I talk about it early on it's kind of like irrelevant.

What do you think is a good plan for if and when to talk about it?  I'm pretty sure it will come up eventully.  One of my old friends will say something, or she will see a picture or something.

My signature says it all about what I think you should do, but - just wanted to say good luck in whatever you decide to do!
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