This reminds me of something which a scout leader said to me during my brief career there.
The details are a bit hazy, but I had said somethign about it being rough, smelly, bad tempered and stupid.
I recall, he asked me, infront of the troop, if I would prefer the guides, (UK equivalent of the Girl Scouts I believe). Though this wasn't a serious question at all, rather intended to humiliate.
He then said that no-one likes the rough stuff, we'd all prefer an easy time like the guides, but we just have to get use to it.
It occurred to me that, if he didn't like it either, then why would he do it?