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Started by Cen, February 09, 2012, 12:42:26 PM

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Cen

Well, I haven't been around much lately, and I guess I was never really that active, but this place has been helpful for me all the same.  Here's a bit of an update.

I started HRT back in September, and will be starting electrolysis very soon.  I managed to get a hold of enough money to pay for most, or all, of my face.  I am looking forward to just getting everything out of the way and being done with all the hiding.  My voice feels like the biggest obstacle to that, so I am working on that more.

Initially I had told my significant other, my parents, and a close friend, but I wanted to keep it from everyone else until I went full-time.  HRT has been working a bit faster and better than I expected, though, and that's made the whole part-time thing more uncomfortable than I'd like.  Fast forward to last week, my SO and I talked to her mom about my transition, and that went well.  I followed up by coming out to most of my co-workers, and the rest of my friends.  As much as I expected it, I haven't received one lasting bad response from anyone, and my mom was the only one who started out negatively.  There were a lot of fears I had about transition that I had resigned myself to having to deal with.  I thought I'd lose my relationship, my family, my friends, my job, and the respect of the people around me.  None of that happened, and I feel really lucky.

Basically, life is good and things are moving forward nicely.
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Sarah Louise

It sounds like things are progressing nicely.

I'm happy for you.
Nameless here for evermore!;  Merely this, and nothing more;
Tis the wind and nothing more!;  Quoth the Raven, "Nevermore!!"
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Ivy_Alexandra

Hey Cori! So happy to hear that everything is going so smoothly for you! I have to admit that I had the same exact fears when I came out as trans! Unfortunately I did lose my significant other but my friends and family all stood by me! Anyways I hope your electrolysis is going good! ~Ivy
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