Scrutinising other woman

[rhonda13000]

Hi everyone,

The last few months i've found myself scrutinising virtually every aspects of other woman. Cant help myself looking at what colour lipstick, makeup and nail polish she uses aswell as clothes and hair and how they walk etc. Its like i'm fishing for ideas all the time. Anyone else have the same problem?


Love you all

Diane

It isn't a problem, hon. It's an educational endeavor.

I do this, too. One learns a great deal from simple observation.

[Rachel]

I more just feel envy, wishing I could feel what they feel, and have even half the femininity in body that they do.

[debisl]

All of us do that. You have to. Little girls have had the, "act like a lady" thing drilled into their heads from the start. Boys on the other hand were told to play in the dirt "be a boy" rough house.
I still say the best learning tools we have are to associate ourselves with GG's, women.
I was off most of last week in Vegas. My friend and I went together and meet up with some other girl friends there. I was the only MTF. When we walked the strip everyone was scrutnised. This is how we learn. We did not have a mom, or peers telling us how to act as a girl.
Before long all of will become a natural.

Deb

[Rachel]

it would be awesome if my mom would teach me some that stuff.....if my parents will even talk to me when i tell them

[debisl]

At least you have a mom to talk to. Mine use to tell me all the time when I was young I should have been a girl since I had such long eye lashes. I knew I should have been a little girl. If my mom was still alive I hope she would be proud to have me as her daughter. At a very early age like around 6 or so I was playing and dressing up as a little girl with the neighbor girl. From my teens and up I have always thought I was trapped. I just did not know how to get myself un-trapped. I have scrutinised women and everything they do for so long now.

Keep on scrutinising girls. That is how we can learn.

Deb

[Jonie]

I do the same thing, it's like women have become our role models more now than ever before.

[Lucy]

Funny thing iS i thorght it was a natural thing and everyone did it. I talk about styles 4 body certain bodyshapes with t wife all t time. I hadent put any more thorght into it than that

[angelsgirl]

Oh God, I'm really bad about that!  I'll actually give little names to women that I don't know well based on their appearance.  It's really, really, horrible, but really, really, addictive. I admit I'm a terrible person for it, but the worst part is that if I'm with even one other girl, we'll point these women out to each other for sport. I'll be like "Hey, Jocelyn...check out Saggy McBoob over there! I mean, it's called underwire, honey!" and we giggle and were so horrible. And it's not like I don't have any flaws that I have room to pick on someone else (I could fill pages with my imperfections, real or perceived, as a matter of fact). It's just one of those things, I guess!

[Kate]

Oh God, I'm really bad about that!  I'll actually give little names to women that I don't know well based on their appearance.  It's really, really, horrible, but really, really, addictive. I admit I'm a terrible person for it, but the worst part is that if I'm with even one other girl, we'll point these women out to each other for sport. I'll be like "Hey, Jocelyn...check out Saggy McBoob over there! I mean, it's called underwire, honey!" and we giggle and were so horrible..

LOL, oh thats SO bad, lol... So if I catch some girls laughing and pointing at me, it doesn't mean I've been read, it means I'm just one of the girls???

Kate

[angelsgirl]

It's extremely possible, but I don't know if that's a good thing.  >