Passing help?

[Dan G.]

So, I have a really well...to put it bluntly, LARGE chest. It makes it IMPOSSIBLE for me to, as much as I hate the word, "pass". I've tried binding, I've tried sports bras, baggy shirts, etc., I've tried everything. I feel pretty hopeless at this point. I mean, I was at a church picnic today with my family, and some people a couple years younger, a group of them, were pointing at me, and loudly saying, "Is that a dude or a chick??", and then "OHDUDE IT'S A GIRL" and laughing at me. I felt like a freak, and I really wish I had something better to handle my chest with. any suggestions? :C

[MadelineB]

So, I have a really well...to put it bluntly, LARGE chest. It makes it IMPOSSIBLE for me to, as much as I hate the word, "pass". I've tried binding, I've tried sports bras, baggy shirts, etc., I've tried everything. I feel pretty hopeless at this point. I mean, I was at a church picnic today with my family, and some people a couple years younger, a group of them, were pointing at me, and loudly saying, "Is that a dude or a chick??", and then "OHDUDE IT'S A GIRL" and laughing at me. I felt like a freak, and I really wish I had something better to handle my chest with. any suggestions? :C

Burento I'm no expert here since I have the opposite problem. But you are going to need a well constructed and well fitted binder that is designed for large chests.

Here's a link to a couple of good threads on Susan's discussing the same subject:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0

[Dan G.]

Burento I'm no expert here since I have the opposite problem. But you are going to need a well constructed and well fitted binder that is designed for large chests.

Here's a link to a couple of good threads on Susan's discussing the same subject:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=89184.0
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=124636.0
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=87171.0

Oh! Thank you so much! I'll check those out.

[ShaunaNinjagirl]

I would say save for surgery ASAP, work two jobs if you have too. It makes life hard in the short term, but be strong and your dreams will come true.