It has been awhile since I came on here, since then I lost my significant other and had to refocus my life and the paths I was taking. Over time I healed as time will bring us to do, and refocused my energies. Now I have a childrens book that I am working on getting published, the book is targeted for transgendered parents to aid in helping children understand the changes that are going to happen. In the end I learned that everything will work itself out given enough time.