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I think i'm not liked

Started by K Style Addiction, March 16, 2012, 12:31:42 AM

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K Style Addiction

I feel like people don't like me here anymore, is this my paranoia or is something happening that no-one is telling me about :'(
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage
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V M

It's paranoia the main destroyer so put it behind and pick up on the positive  :)   Lot's of folks like you
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Cindy

You are worrying too much. Many people like you. We know you are having a hard time too so we are looking out for you.

Hugs

Cindy
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Felix

Donna you are being paranoid. Here on this site you are not likely to get attacked for that, but be careful irl. Sometimes those worries can become self-fulfilling prophecies.

I like you just fine Donna. We're all screwed up in one way or another, and if you have some thing you don't like about yourself that you think we see, keep in mind that it may not actually be noticeable.
everybody's house is haunted
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K Style Addiction

Thank you all.
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You might not like us (me) doing it but we do it because we DO actually care about you

I like you of course! I would never not like you, if you told me "Go F yourself" than that's a different story but i know you care, if it wasn't for you i would have never made those two trips out of the house.
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage
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Jamie D

QuoteYou are worrying too much. Many people like you. We know you are having a hard time too so we are looking out for you.

Ditto that
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Stephe

I care and worry about you. You might not like what I say but it has nothing to do with me not liking you.
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K Style Addiction

I never said i didn't like you, in that thread (which i'm assuming you're talking about) i asked whether it was a good idea and you told me what you thought, you didn't tell me "you're a loser you'll never make it"...if you did then i might not like you lol but you didn't, thanks anyway :) hugs.
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage
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Stephe

Quote from: DonnaTroy on March 18, 2012, 12:43:29 AM
I never said i didn't like you,

I didn't think you did. I said you might not like what I had said.

And again being brutally honest, I'm not real concerned if you "like me" or not. I didn't give the advice I did to win friends or I would have just said "You're so pretty and 100% passable, go have fun flirting with the str8 guys at that club"...
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K Style Addiction

QuoteYou're so pretty and 100% passable

You don't thiink i am, i know where you're going at but i thought you said you cared about me :).
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage
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Jamie D

Kimmy, Stephe is as honest as a summer day is long.  You are 100% passable.  More than that, you can not be distinguished from a cisgirl on looks alone.  If your mannerisms and voice match your appearance, you would be all girl.

These posters are your peers, with the same fears and doubts you have.  But they have the advantage of life experience.  Listen and take in what they are telling you.  That will really build confidence!!
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Felix

I sense some backstory and discussion I'm not in on, but Donna you do pass fine.
everybody's house is haunted
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Stephe

Quote from: DonnaTroy on March 18, 2012, 02:00:56 AM
You don't thiink i am, i know where you're going at but i thought you said you cared about me :).

I'm going to stop responding to your posts. I can't say anything it seems without offending you.  I NEVER said you are not pretty, quite the opposite. I have zero idea how "passable" you are in real life from a picture. No one can know. Your picture is 100% passable and you are very pretty. Sorry if I don't repeat this every time I respond to you.

I really do hope you can sort out these self image issues you have, but I am tired of you twisting around my advice into "You don't think I am pretty" nonsense. I still advice GO FIND A THERAPIST to help you deal with this. That's my last word of advice for you.
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Amazon D

Quote from: DonnaTroy on March 16, 2012, 12:31:42 AM
I feel like people don't like me here anymore, is this my paranoia or is something happening that no-one is telling me about :'(

I simply adore you. Your one of my cute younger sisters.. hugs lil sis you are loved  ;)
I'm an Amazon womyn + very butch + respecting MWMF since 1999 unless invited. + I AM A HIPPIE

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K Style Addiction

QuoteI'm going to stop responding to your posts.

Sorry :'(, i wasn't offended...your input has helped me :). I'm sorry you don't want to help me anymore. Thank you Amazon D *hugs*.
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

Despite all my rage, I'm still just a rat in a cage
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