The New you know you pass when

[JayKyle]

I walked into my work place after going to the stylist to talk to a co-worker and my boss asked "can I help you sir?" before realizing it was me. I'm pretty sure that just about made my life.

[rachl]

...you're in the bathroom washing your hands and a girl at the next sink takes off her shirt to adjust her bra (or something, I wasn't looking closely).

[peky]

...you're in the bathroom washing your hands and a girl at the next sink takes off her shirt to adjust her bra (or something, I wasn't looking closely).

ah! those wandering eyes LOL. Cool Rachl!!

[Snowpaw]

When I can wear my guy shirts I had left over and still be maamed.

[Alainaluvsu]

For voice: when you are trying to get info under an account that's in your old name, and people have to ask if you're calling for somebody else... and you're not even trying to sound like a girl!

[Rita]

...you're in the bathroom washing your hands and a girl at the next sink takes off her shirt to adjust her bra (or something, I wasn't looking closely).

Oh my god xD I am sorry if this happened I would probably feel very nervous. Like omg omg omg if she finds out... omg omg omg I am so going to jail omg omg omg -runs out of the bathroom- SORRRY I GOTTA... I GOTTA GO USE THE BATHROOM!..

wait did I just say bathroom.. dummy Rita xD

Yea I would freak out probably, already am typing it up.

[rachl]

Oh my god xD I am sorry if this happened I would probably feel very nervous. Like omg omg omg if she finds out... omg omg omg I am so going to jail omg omg omg -runs out of the bathroom- SORRRY I GOTTA... I GOTTA GO USE THE BATHROOM!..

wait did I just say bathroom.. dummy Rita xD

Yea I would freak out probably, already am typing it up.

It didn't faze me at all. It just caught me a little off guard. As I walked out, it was more like "Huh, that was odd." There's no way I can be kicked out of a bathroom on campus, and I'm "out" even though not really as visibly trans as I used to be. If someone *ever* confronted me (and no one has), they'd get a big earful and a lesson from me, and then I'd possibly report them.

[Rita]

It didn't faze me at all. It just caught me a little off guard. As I walked out, it was more like "Huh, that was odd." There's no way I can be kicked out of a bathroom on campus, and I'm "out" even though not really as visibly trans as I used to be. If someone *ever* confronted me (and no one has), they'd get a big earful and a lesson from me, and then I'd possibly report them.

I have coined the term Bathroom Dysphoria, some of us have it xD

[Tristan]

you get out of speeding ticket or get oil change for free

[Arike]

you get out of speeding ticket or get oil change for free

oil change for free?? that's a good idea for a new challenge! 

Currently I'm still happy that allways some nice helpful guy appears out of nothing when I've to cope with a flat tyre ....

[Alainaluvsu]

oil change for free?? that's a good idea for a new challenge! 

Currently I'm still happy that allways some nice helpful guy appears out of nothing when I've to cope with a flat tyre ....

I have a cis friend that wishes guys would do that for her. One day she was in her yard changing a tire and a guy sat there and watched her try to loosen a nut for 20 minutes until he finally helped her.

[Tristan]

thats awful. some people are just not nice

[Keroppi]

To be fair, I can imagine guys that might otherwise had been happy to help thinking they don't want to potentially offend women. "What this, you think I need help just because I'm a woman?"

[Rita]

To be fair, I can imagine guys that might otherwise had been happy to help thinking they don't want to potentially offend women. "What this, you think I need help just because I'm a woman?"

My ideology is, don't abuse your power to get things but if someone kindly offers a hand of generosity never deny it.  So if someone wants to change my oil for free, heyyy thanks very much ^.^ Adios.

[Alainaluvsu]

Today I was at an Applebees with my roommate. The waitress sat us and I just got this irky feeling about her. She kept looking at me from afar and the way she talked to me just felt... off, can't put my finger on it. It felt like she was trying not to break a smile or even laugh / giggle when she looked my way to talk. I told my roommate and he was like "Maybe she is trying to figure you out." ... which made me worry I was being clocked. I told him "Either that or she's gay!" ... he was like "psh I don't think so honey... Women look at other women all the time. Maybe she doesn't like you because you have prettier hair than her or something".

Well anyways, the feeling I got from her made me a bit nervous to talk to her or look her in the eyes while talking to her.

When she brought our steak out she asked us if we would like some A-1 with it, and he responded for us with a no. I told him that I wanted some but I didn't want her to think I was a pig (he teases me about eating like a pig all the time). Well.. he told her anyways and I said "NO that's okay!" to her. She said "Oh I'm gonna get you some, no need to be embarrassed about it!" ... right then I thought "Okay, she either clocked me or she's lesbian".

When he asked for the check, she mentioned something about winning $1,000 if we went online and filled out a survey, and she joked that we should share with her if we won it. I jokingly said back "Well maybe we will!" No idea why I said that, just my nice nature. Sure enough her eyes lit up and she said "Really? I'm gonna give you my number! You should call me!" ... and walked off, looked over her shoulder and said "You want me to give you my number?" while looking right at me.

Tim looked at me with just a jaw dropping shocked face. I was a little stunned by it myself! I didn't want to be mean and say I wasn't into women so I just said sure. She gave me her number, asked me my name... and after a moment asked Tims' name as sort of an after thought to be polite and that was that.

I cannot believe a rather pretty waitress gave me her number! He walked out laughing his ass off. I was sort of embarrassed and kinda sad because now I can't go back to that Applebees. Obviously I'm not going to call her, but the fact that I thought I was as good as clocked and it was in fact because she was checking me out was pretty big to me.

Now if men would stop just staring and looking away when I look at them and grow a pair and talk to me  with more than that cute n cuddly voice, I'd be happier rofl!

[Rita]

Today I was at an Applebees with my roommate. The waitress sat us and I just got this irky feeling about her. She kept looking at me from afar and the way she talked to me just felt... off, can't put my finger on it. It felt like she was trying not to break a smile or even laugh / giggle when she looked my way to talk. I told my roommate and he was like "Maybe she is trying to figure you out." ... which made me worry I was being clocked. I told him "Either that or she's gay!" ... he was like "psh I don't think so honey... Women look at other women all the time. Maybe she doesn't like you because you have prettier hair than her or something".

Well anyways, the feeling I got from her made me a bit nervous to talk to her or look her in the eyes while talking to her.

When she brought our steak out she asked us if we would like some A-1 with it, and he responded for us with a no. I told him that I wanted some but I didn't want her to think I was a pig (he teases me about eating like a pig all the time). Well.. he told her anyways and I said "NO that's okay!" to her. She said "Oh I'm gonna get you some, no need to be embarrassed about it!" ... right then I thought "Okay, she either clocked me or she's lesbian".

When he asked for the check, she mentioned something about winning $1,000 if we went online and filled out a survey, and she joked that we should share with her if we won it. I jokingly said back "Well maybe we will!" No idea why I said that, just my nice nature. Sure enough her eyes lit up and she said "Really? I'm gonna give you my number! You should call me!" ... and walked off, looked over her shoulder and said "You want me to give you my number?" while looking right at me.

Tim looked at me with just a jaw dropping shocked face. I was a little stunned by it myself! I didn't want to be mean and say I wasn't into women so I just said sure. She gave me her number, asked me my name... and after a moment asked Tims' name as sort of an after thought to be polite and that was that.

I cannot believe a rather pretty waitress gave me her number! He walked out laughing his ass off. I was sort of embarrassed and kinda sad because now I can't go back to that Applebees. Obviously I'm not going to call her, but the fact that I thought I was as good as clocked and it was in fact because she was checking me out was pretty big to me.

Now if men would stop just staring and looking away when I look at them and grow a pair and talk to me  with more than that cute n cuddly voice, I'd be happier rofl!

I laughed in rl imagining the entire situation as I read it.  I can imagine the way you two left the place haha.

[Jenny07]

Alania

Your story made me laugh, too funny. 

Thanks

[Keaira]

Caleb sent me this last night, it was a chat that he had with his friend. He let me repost it.

Jordan says: (10:53:23 PM)
You'll figure it out. You just need to be yourself.

Caleb says: (10:53:30 PM)

why does everyone say that lately?

Caleb says: (10:53:36 PM)

am i not being myself?

Jordan says: (10:53:40 PM)

Nope.

Jordan says: (10:53:45 PM)

Who else has said it?

Caleb says: (10:54:02 PM)

that woman who you talked with briefly over text that one night. keaira.

Caleb says: (10:54:12 PM)

she's said it a few times lately, seemingly out of nowhere and it confuses me

Jordan says: (10:54:39 PM)

You are held back lately. In a way, more so than when you were pretending to be a woman.

Caleb says: (10:55:08 PM)

hiw?

Caleb says: (10:55:09 PM)

how

Jordan says: (10:55:23 PM)

You're scared of something.

Caleb says: (10:55:46 PM)

hm. but keaira doesn't have past caleb as a reference.

Jordan says: (10:55:59 PM)

Ask her. I'd love to know if she thinks the same as me.

Jordan says: (10:56:10 PM)

Until then you aren't getting a word.

Caleb says: (10:56:13 PM)



Caleb says: (10:56:18 PM)

oh hey

Caleb says: (10:56:24 PM)

speaking of keaira, i have a question for you

Caleb says: (10:56:43 PM)

you know how you asked if she was ok with me being trans?

Jordan says: (10:56:49 PM)

Is she?

Jordan says: (10:57:06 PM)

I wouldn't want you to be friends with someone who does not accept you fully.

Caleb says: (10:57:10 PM)

lol

Caleb says: (10:57:20 PM)

so you really didn't know that she is also trans?

Jordan says: (10:57:45 PM)

What?

Caleb says: (10:58:07 PM)

she is trans

Jordan says: (10:58:26 PM)

Like a woman who was in a man's body?

Caleb says: (10:58:30 PM)

yes

Jordan says: (10:58:52 PM)

Are you messing with me?

Caleb says: (10:58:55 PM)

no! lol

Jordan says: (10:59:25 PM)

Has she had a lot of work done?

Jordan says: (10:59:33 PM)

She is very pretty

Caleb says: (10:59:49 PM)

nope. no work at all, except taking estrogen

Jordan says: (11:01:21 PM)

Wow! She has a beautiful face.

Caleb says: (11:01:37 PM)

lol. i am so showing her this. she will love it.

Jordan says: (11:01:47 PM)

So

Jordan says: (11:01:50 PM)

Do you like her?

Caleb says: (11:02:05 PM)

lol. yes, i do. but she is married.

Caleb says: (11:02:14 PM)

so that's that

Jordan says: (11:02:59 PM)

Ugh I am so jealous of her

Jordan says: (11:04:03 PM)

Not only do you like her, but she is very pretty too.

Jordan says: (11:04:10 PM)

Does her husband keep a watchful eye on you?

Caleb says: (11:04:24 PM)

LOL. wife. die heterosexist scum!

Jordan says: (11:04:53 PM)

Oh so she is a lesbian.

Jordan says: (11:04:59 PM)

That makes me feel better.

Caleb says: (11:05:14 PM)

sorry, she's bisexual. lol. but as i said, it doesn't matter one way or t'other

Jordan says: (11:05:24 PM)

F***. Do you know where she lives?

Caleb says: (11:06:06 PM)

i know the general area...like the city. lol. that's it. why?

Jordan says: (11:07:22 PM)

Because I hate her.

Caleb says: (11:08:42 PM)

aw, i'm sorry

Caleb says: (11:08:48 PM)

i don't want to make you feel bad

Jordan says: (11:09:09 PM)

I'd be jealous of her even if you did not like her, because she is super pretty.

Caleb says: (11:09:22 PM)

that's funny, because she might be jealous of you since you are cis

Jordan says: (11:09:32 PM)

That makes no sense to me!

Jordan says: (11:10:38 PM)

It doesn't matter what she looked like before, because she is being her true self now.

Caleb says: (11:11:00 PM)

haha

Caleb says: (11:11:04 PM)

aw

Caleb says: (11:11:07 PM)

that is true

Jordan says: (11:11:39 PM)

She looks like she is a strong woman too. Not many of us around.

Caleb says: (11:11:44 PM)

how can you tell?

Jordan says: (11:12:11 PM)

I can see it in her face! She looks really confident.

Caleb says: (11:12:20 PM)

lol she hates when people say that

Caleb says: (11:12:28 PM)

she doesn't feel confident

Caleb says: (11:13:20 PM)

she doesn't even understand how she passes a lot of the time. as female.

Jordan says: (11:13:49 PM)

I can understand that. Well you can send her a big hug from me! She is a woman like any other and no different from me. Except maybe prettier.

Caleb says: (11:14:10 PM)

lol

Caleb says: (11:14:27 PM)

i'm sure this will make her smile

Jordan says: (11:14:53 PM)

Ha ha. You don't have to be transgender to have envious feelings, see?

Caleb says: (11:15:15 PM)

nope

Caleb says: (11:15:51 PM)

so charlie. i'm just going to log off for a second so i can save this to my history. can i show keaira?

Jordan says: (11:16:43 PM)

You can definitely show her! I am not ashamed to tell another woman I am a bit jealous.

Caleb says: (11:16:52 PM)

thanks

[rachl]

Are you fine with your friend outing you? I'm out, and have published on being trans...it's easy to google me and find out that I' m trans, and even *I'm* upset when people inform others without my permission.

[Alainaluvsu]

Are you fine with your friend outing you? I'm out, and have published on being trans...it's easy to google me and find out that I' m trans, and even *I'm* upset when people inform others without my permission.

It frustrates me sometimes... depending on who he tells and why. When he gets wasted drunk he likes to out me to anyone he thinks he feels comfortable with, and that ticks me off.