Trans* at School: Middle School and High School Edition
http://artoftransliness.tumblr.com/post/20284666623/trans-at-school-middle-school-and-high-school-editionA lot of people have been asking us questions lately about coming out in middle school or high school, generally in the public school system. This can be really tricky due to bullying and difficulty with the teachers and administration, but there are some ways to make it a little easier. Although neither of us have personal experience coming out as trans* in middle or high school, we did some research and here are the tips we were able to come up with:
1) Get your parents on your side. Having the support of your parents in this situation is absolutely invaluable, particularly if you are much younger. Not only can your parents approach the teachers and administration at the school for you, but when they are on your side you are more likely to get the results you'd like (in terms of the school being accommodating to you, etc.). Of course this is not always something that you can control, but if your parents ARE supportive, let the teachers and administration at your school know and ask your parents to talk to the school on your behalf.
2) Educate the teachers and administration of the school. Pamphlets like this one are actually designed just for the purpose of educating schools about creating a safe and supportive environment for transgender youth. Your school might not have any experience dealing with trans* students, and so unfortunately it might fall on you to explain to them what being trans* is/means and what your needs are (having teachers call you by your chosen name and use your correct pronouns, bathroom arrangements, protection from bullying, etc.).
