Why Straight Men?

[debisl]

I would block it in a heart beat. He sounds like a sick ba____. Some one with guns might have one on them.
I have on occasion when I was a little younger told some straight guys that were making advances I was transsexual and if they would pay for the opperation they could use it anytime they wanted. All backed off with no physical violence. Just some verbal.

Deb

[ssindysmith]

Deb GF be careful, that was gutsy you never know what could happen when you come out.

[debisl]

I know where you are coming from. I was younger and bolder. That is not to say I have smarted up too much. I am still a dingy blond. I don't run my mouth much any more. I have lost any desire to challenge people. My only defense now is that I would have to scratch their eyes out.

Deb

[angelsgirl]

Now if only I would get smarter and stop threatening the guys that are three times my size by saying I'll slap them so hard their grandma will feel it! I get tired of people taking my seat (and moving my stuff) or using me as a point of intersection in a crowd because I'm little.  I'm developing a Napoleon complex!  >

[Suzy]

The guy just can't take a hint.  He can't email me directly, but he still pm's me from the forum.  And then it shows up.  Seems like every time he goes to work he starts in on me.  That forum has no ignore feature either.  May just have to dump it but I don't want to.  And I can't believe this is what he's doing when he's supposed to be an EMS dispatcher.  He must really be hard up.  I've seen my pics and I have no delusions.

Kristi

[Attis]

Men are horney fracking beasts! Rule 34 and 35 [4chan] should be the only warnings one needs as the overly sexed up imaginations of males. Nothing personal, but it's true. :3

-- Brede

[Wendy]

Kristi,

First I do not respond to sales people.  This is clearly a salesperson.

Second tell the sales person I will report you to the Forum Leader if you do not stop.

Third send them to Debbie

My only defense now is that I would have to scratch their eyes out.

Fourth tell the Sales person you do not want any more private messages.

Fifth Delete, Delete, Delete.

[Suzy]

Kristi,
First I do not respond to sales people.  This is clearly a salesperson.

Sales guy, huh?   Wonder what he's selling.

hey sexy,what ya doin tonight?

hey there babe, call me lets talk xxx-xxx-xxxx

hey sexy, you know you want me.  I'm on duty right now.  Call me and let's meet up. xxx-xxx-xxxx

O yeah, you know I'd take you..............

He's got one heck of a sales pitch.

Kristi

[RebeccaFog]

Hi Kristi,

   I finally thought of how to stop that guy.
   Phase 1.   Let him know that you really don't like the communications and that you are feeling he is harassing you. I know you've tried to discourage him and if you feel you've definitely done all you can with that, then go into what I call phase 2.
   Phase 2. Since you have his phone number and you know what he does or where he works for a living, send him notice that you are not flattered by his attention and if he continues harassing you, then you will be forced to call his place of work and notify them of what he is doing on their time. You can be nice and tell him that you don't want to do that, but you will if you feel it is necessary.


Rebecca

[Wendy]

Kristi, Rebecca has a great plan.  However go to step 2 and tell the Sales Person that you will leave a message at their office.  Go for the eyes!  Stop being nice.  If the person is married ask Debbie to leave a message for you with the wife.

[Suzy]

I thought about giving his number to this skanky street walked that always hangs around near my office.  But that would be cruel to her.  I know I'm no prize catch, but surely that would would be a step down.

Or maybe I could post it out on our sign board and advertise a free cruise if you call this number.

Or maybe call and request that this phone number be disconnected.

Or maybe I post a fake ebay ad with his phone number as the contact auctioning off his motorcycle with no reserve.



Kristi

[Wendy]

Kristi, you are so funny but that is evil!

Have a heart for this guy.  Post his number with the following:  Big burly man wanted for roommate.  Free rent if like top position.  (That will get a lot of calls!)

Seriously do not tolerate that kind of stuff.  If it were me I would just call the office and leave a message that I was not interested in what he was selling.  That would not get him in trouble but would stop the calls.

W

[Shana A]

Or maybe I post a fake ebay ad with his phone number as the contact auctioning off his motorcycle with no reserve.

Kristi, that's perfect! Seriously though, good luck keeping this sleazy guy away.

zythyra

[Ricki]

Ummmmm
ricki thinks
PERVERT!
work past the slime and something clear and good shows through!
Ricki

[RebeccaFog]

I thought about giving his number to this skanky street walked that always hangs around near my office.  But that would be cruel to her.  I know I'm no prize catch, but surely that would would be a step down.

Or maybe I could post it out on our sign board and advertise a free cruise if you call this number.

Or maybe call and request that this phone number be disconnected.

Or maybe I post a fake ebay ad with his phone number as the contact auctioning off his motorcycle with no reserve.

Kristi

I'm sure you're kidding, but please don't do anything that could get you in trouble. You don't want to be investigated or taken to court for anything.

[Suzy]

Hey Rebecca,
Thanks for the concern, hon.  But I do assure you I am really joking.  I wouldn't do anything to draw more attention to me.  Not on purpose anyway.  Sometimes I get a little loopy and start to daydream and act silly.  I'll probably just keep on ignoring him until he gets tired of it.

Peace!
Kristi

[littlegreenfly]

Don't know how computer savy you are, but if you go to a telephone directory site, many of them have a reverse look up section... ie enter a phone number and get an address.  If his number isn't unlisted, then you could send him something interesting in the mail.... Not that I would EVER do such a thing myself....

> LGF

[fwhager]

Well I can tell you I am a straigh guy that loves transgender women. I am in a very serious relationship with a TG in Phoenix and I live in Louisville KY. We talk every night when she get in from work for about 1 to 4 a night. I have never treated her the way you decribed that man did he is not a gentleman he is what give men a bad name (he is a jerk) some one that just wants one thing. If you really care about the TG you are talking to you need to get to know them first. We call each other Husband and Wife, we have never meet in person but there is concection between us that we can not break and don't want to. In April she is coming to meet me and my children then we are going out to Phoenix for her birthday by the end of the year she is moving here. Her dreams and now mine are to open a half way house for TG people in Louisville with in the next 5 years. She says i am special (uniquic)there are not alot of men that want to understand the TG people but I care about them so much I can't understand why there are groups out there that would want to hurt them and anyone in GBLT community

[rhonda13000]

I really don't know what it is. I think that most of them are perfectly straight. But there is a curious aspect to this part of sexuality.  I think that this is why we are so vehemently hated among some religious groups. They are attracted to us and it scares the be "jesus" out of them!

Cindi

Thanx for the laugh, Cindi.

What you said however, evokes a little thought.

I thought about giving his number to this skanky street walked that always hangs around near my office.  But that would be cruel to her.  I know I'm no prize catch, but surely that would would be a step down.

Or maybe I could post it out on our sign board and advertise a free cruise if you call this number.

Or maybe call and request that this phone number be disconnected.

Or maybe I post a fake ebay ad with his phone number as the contact auctioning off his motorcycle with no reserve.



Kristi

[Lucy]

Hey Kristi,

I dont know what your intentions are but sexual harrasment is a serious offence, How would you feel about telling the police.

Or yer just delete the messages and block that e-mail address, much easier ow and make sure that e-bay posting can be seen here in the UK to .

But seriousely get rid of this sex pest it might be e-mails at the moment but you dont know what hes capable of.

good luck
LUCY