Do we all hate our mothers?

[Natkat]

im sorry but I think the point seam alittle stupid..
why should we hate womens, or female role models for being maculine or ftm?, then what about all those violance fathers who hit there sons, they will automatically turn mtf?..

no it dosent really work that way.
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for anyone who currious I had a good relationship with my mothers in general, but the being transgender things had made it hard,
she have a hard time accepting me as a guy, and I feel heartbroken for loving her if she cant love who I am.

[CountryBoy120390]

My egg donor has never been there for me, and when she has, she has tried, along with her mother, to mash me into some mold. My birth name is Christie, named after Christ, and I have that held over my head constantly. I still love her and all, but I also don't expect her to change. Control runs in the family, and instead of being the lesbian she is, shse hides behind religion. Does this have anything to do with my gender identity? hell no. I've always looked up to my dad more and ever since I can remember I wanted to be just like him. When I found out boys peed standing up I wondered why I couldn't. But I never heard about sex changes and transgenders until I was out of high school. That's thanks to my Baptist family. Everyone has their own unique relationships with their parents. I only care about my egg donor so much because of her health sucking major nuts. I f she were healthy I would never speak to her again.

[Natkat]

Looks like you guys were indeed lucky having the moms you had! The trouble with mine is really that
on the outside, she seems to be almost perfect. Nobody would understand if I told them I had the
problems I described, they would look at ME, trying to find the source of the problem in my refusal of
the 'normal' life everybody else seems to aim for.

its pretty much the same with me and my mom.
I Do like my mom, however the thing about me being transgender and her acceptence been very hurtfull for me.
she been very aganst me trandition, she sorta try not to but even this and there she seams very unsure.
People who see her from outside think im the evil one for refusing her so much, but once in a while I has to because otherwise she will just hurt me by putting me down.

[CaptainFantastic]

I'm glad to see that so many of you guys are doing fine with your mom's, and I guess I was
looking for an easy explanation as to why I never got round identifying with the female, being
a biological girl, and instead chose the opposite.
It's just what I heard from (bad) therapists, pointing in that direction. I'm still very very glad I'm
everything but a blueprint of my mother. The moments when I feel I want to cut her out of my heart
oddly contrast those when I feel I want to get everything right for her because her life wasn't really
much fun.
For the moment, with x-mas coming up and all that, I've agreed to a temporary cease-fire - that is, if
she doesn't start annoying me too much again - which is one of her specialities, and holidays and the
festive season is one of her favourite times to do it! I guess I'll be in trouble next week anyway, because
I agreed to take a dog in for the holidays while the owners are off to Spain; I've been knowing for weeks
now, but i'll have to sell it to her like I only got the news...tomorrow, so she can't say anything. Well, she
probably will, but what the heck! I'll get paid for taking the dog, and as I'm rather skinned at the moment,
this is a welcome 200 EUR for our x-mas budget (smoked salmon and bubbly after all! Yippee!)
If it all goes belly up, I can still put put all the dogs in the van and head out camping in the woods - nice

[Natkat]

I'm glad to see that so many of you guys are doing fine with your mom's, and I guess I was
looking for an easy explanation as to why I never got round identifying with the female, being
a biological girl, and instead chose the opposite.
It's just what I heard from (bad) therapists, pointing in that direction. I'm still very very glad I'm
everything but a blueprint of my mother. The moments when I feel I want to cut her out of my heart
oddly contrast those when I feel I want to get everything right for her because her life wasn't really
much fun.
For the moment, with x-mas coming up and all that, I've agreed to a temporary cease-fire - that is, if
she doesn't start annoying me too much again - which is one of her specialities, and holidays and the
festive season is one of her favourite times to do it! I guess I'll be in trouble next week anyway, because
I agreed to take a dog in for the holidays while the owners are off to Spain; I've been knowing for weeks
now, but i'll have to sell it to her like I only got the news...tomorrow, so she can't say anything. Well, she
probably will, but what the heck! I'll get paid for taking the dog, and as I'm rather skinned at the moment,
this is a welcome 200 EUR for our x-mas budget (smoked salmon and bubbly after all! Yippee!)
If it all goes belly up, I can still put put all the dogs in the van and head out camping in the woods - nice

blamming the parrents, or your childhood are always a very typical gay/trans thing.
please ignore people telling you anything like that because its all b***
if those prejugings where to be true then it would mean EVERY person on earth who had a bad relationship with there mothers and who biologically was born female, would turn out to be transgender.. I know we are a couple of transgender but really thats ALOT of people..

[Sub-Zero]

I like my mum and dad a lot. I had a great childhood where I was free to be pretty much exactly as I wanted. During my teen years my parents were stricter but they've calmed as I became older. Now they trust me and respect me enough to make the right decisions for myself and my future happiness.

[King Malachite]

I have a love/hate relationship with her.

I hate her old school ways in concerns to religion.  I also hates that she drinks and smokes and takes it out on me but I do love her and it is going to tear me up inside the day when she won't be on this Earth anymore.  Heck it tears me up to think of her being in a retirement home.  I don't know how I will handle that.  Even at age 20 she gives me a "mummy tuck" in bed if I am ever feeling sick and she still do a lot of things for me out of the goodness of her heart.  She is the reason why I am completely shelted but I'm enjoying it for as long as I can because one day she won't be here to do those things for me.