Parents tell me I'M NOT A GIRL

[ByeBye]

They think I'm NUTS!!!!!

THEY CANNOT ACCEPT ME

THEY MANHANDLE A WOMAN (me) I wimp away and they go in for more, threatening to break my neck.

THEY THINK I'M PSYCHOTIC THAT I NEED TO GO TO A MENTAL INSTITUTION.

THEY TELL ME I'M NOT A GIRL THAT I'LL NEVER BE A FASHION DESIGNER.

THAT I WILL BE A DRAFTER (A MEN'S JOB)

THEY USE HE PRONOUNS ON ME EXCLUSIVELY

THEY TELL ME SARCASTICALLY "OH THE DOCTORS LIED YOU ARE A GIRL BECAUSE THE DOCTOR SAID ITS A GIRL."

In reality the doctor said its a BOY SO THE THINK I'M A MAN BECAUSE I WAS BORN INTO A MALE BODY BUT THEY DON'T KNOW MY FEMALE SOUL.

My dad tells me go get a job like every other MAN your age. I have problem with exactly one word.

THEY TELL ME FEMALES DON'T RAGE

BUT TRUST ME TRUST ME IF YOUR PARENTS BROKE YOU DOWN AND SHATTERED EVERY LAST DREAM YOU EVER HAD INCLUDING MOVING TO YOUR DREAM PLACE AND THEN TOLD YOU TO STOP CRYING AND MAN IT UP YOU'D BE FULL OF RAGE TOO.

F*** MY BODY'S MASCULIZING SO I LOOK LIKE A MAN TOO IVE BEEN SIRED TWICE SINCE YESTERDAY AND CALLED A MAN TODAY.

IMAGINE EVERY DREAM OF YOURS CRUSHED!!!!!!!

THEY TOLD ME I'LL NEVER BE A GIRL!!!!!!


"HE's f*n crazy" quote from my dad as I type.

I'm crazy because I'm not allowed to be a girl and now my body is sadly masculizing.

Luckily I believe faith is stronger than action and through my faith I shall overcome my obstacles (I know it sounds masculine but with unaccepting family members it gets on my nerves)


I love my family with all my heart but they will not let me live my dreams.

Negative affirmations are NEVER good.

Now



December 2011



I don't like going backwards.

[Felix]

You really struggle. Can't you get away from them, define yourself without such meanness?

[Annah]

you are at the age where you can leave your parent's house.

Something to consider.

[Joeyboo~ :3]

you are at the age where you can leave your parent's house.

Something to consider.

+1

[Rabbit]

Your problem isn't just your parents...

I really don't mean to sound harsh.. but...

From your posts, it seems you seriously have disconnected from reality. You aren't thinking about your sittuation rationally.. or logically...

Sure, getting away from your parents might be a good idea...

But, more than that, you should see a therapist and work out some of your issues.

If you get upset because someone calls you "sir" (when you are presenting 100 percent male?) ... or if you seriously believe "thinking female will make you female"... or are posting asking if you pass as a girl, when you are presenting 100 percent male... well... something is wrong.

You also have an odd idea of what girls are ... or can be. Drafting isn't a "guy's job", there are plenty of women who work in that field...

Inside, you may feel female (we all know how that is)... but, you can't ignore the reality of your life as it is now (and that is, you look like a guy). You need to calm down, and figure out how to move forward. Your parents don't get to decide how you live (move out).

But, again, it really seems to be more than just parents causing you problems... if you jump into the real world presenting the way you do and demanding everyone treat you super girly... you will face a very harsh reality.

[Alainaluvsu]

Take your life in your own hands.

[A_Dresden_Doll]

I just can't take you seriously. I call troll, and a bad one at that. Regardless, this thread is going to go on for pages, and my soul will die a little because of it.

[wheat thins are delicious]

Your problem isn't just your parents...

I really don't mean to sound harsh.. but...

From your posts, it seems you seriously have disconnected from reality. You aren't thinking about your sittuation rationally.. or logically...

Sure, getting away from your parents might be a good idea...

But, more than that, you should see a therapist and work out some of your issues.

If you get upset because someone calls you "sir" (when you are presenting 100 percent male?) ... or if you seriously believe "thinking female will make you female"... or are posting asking if you pass as a girl, when you are presenting 100 percent male... well... something is wrong.

You also have an odd idea of what girls are ... or can be. Drafting isn't a "guy's job", there are plenty of women who work in that field...

Inside, you may feel female (we all know how that is)... but, you can't ignore the reality of your life as it is now (and that is, you look like a guy). You need to calm down, and figure out how to move forward. Your parents don't get to decide how you live (move out).

But, again, it really seems to be more than just parents causing you problems... if you jump into the real world presenting the way you do and demanding everyone treat you super girly... you will face a very harsh reality.

Words of wisdom.

[tekla]

THEY TELL ME I'M NOT A GIRL THAT I'LL NEVER BE A FASHION DESIGNER.

Tommy Hilfiger, Pierre Cardin, Michael Kors, Roy Halston Frowick, Bill Blass, Bob Mackie, Calvin Kline, Alexander McQueen, Jean Paul Gaultier, Oleg Cassini, Perry Ellis, Salvatore Ferragamo, Tommy Hilfiger, Yves Saint Laurent, Alexander Wang, Egon von Fürstenberg, Christian Dior, Russell Simmons, Hubert de Givenchy, Gianni Versace, Geoffrey Beene, Karl Lagerfeld, and Jimmy Choo, Jay Z, Sean P-Diddy Combs.

Either your parents are total fashion idiots with a K-Mart wardrobe, or you are for listening to them.

It does seem to help if your French, Italian or a hip-hop star.

[Alainaluvsu]

THEY TELL ME I'M NOT A GIRL THAT I'LL NEVER BE A FASHION DESIGNER.

Tommy Hilfiger, Pierre Cardin, Michael Kors, Roy Halston Frowick, Bill Blass, Bob Mackie, Calvin Kline, Alexander McQueen, Jean Paul Gaultier, Oleg Cassini, Perry Ellis, Salvatore Ferragamo, Tommy Hilfiger, Yves Saint Laurent, Alexander Wang, Egon von Fürstenberg, Christian Dior, Russell Simmons, Hubert de Givenchy, Gianni Versace, Geoffrey Beene, Karl Lagerfeld, and Jimmy Choo, Jay Z, Sean P-Diddy Combs.

Either your parents are total fashion idiots with a K-Mart wardrobe, or you are for listening to them.

It does seem to help if your French, Italian or a hip-hop star.

Or if you like penis.

[tekla]

Huge stereotype, like most I'm sure it comes from ignorance not enlightenment.  Most of those men had families - some created houses and dynasties.  But anytime you want to walk up to Russel Simmons and ask him how much penis he likes let me know, it would be fun to watch.

[Alainaluvsu]

Huge stereotype, like most I'm sure it comes from ignorance not enlightenment.

Yeah... but saying it helps to be Italian, French, or a hip-hop star ... that's enlightenment.

[V M]

 

Okay friends, let's not turn this into a pissing match

What most folks are trying to express is that if your folks are not on board with your ideals and if you wish to become a female fashion designer then you need to take control and take steps to accomplish your goals

It will take allot of work, schooling and determination, but in the end you will be your own woman in charge of your own designer label

Time to get busy and create your own future in the fashion industry

[V M]

I'll admit to only reason I posted in this thread was to get enough post to upload my avatar rofl

Post packing is highly frowned upon

[maddieNoir]

Rabbit and A Dresden Doll speak true.

[Tori]

There's a reason why we have clichés like, "Miss the forest for the trees..." or, "Cut off your nose to spite your face."

We can be blinded by our own eyes.

[justmeinoz]

If you have GID they are wrong.  Simple as that.

[Tori]

Well said.

This is getting rather melodramatic though... no?

Will it ever end?

[King Malachite]

Your problem isn't just your parents...

I really don't mean to sound harsh.. but...

From your posts, it seems you seriously have disconnected from reality. You aren't thinking about your sittuation rationally.. or logically...

Sure, getting away from your parents might be a good idea...

But, more than that, you should see a therapist and work out some of your issues.

If you get upset because someone calls you "sir" (when you are presenting 100 percent male?) ... or if you seriously believe "thinking female will make you female"... or are posting asking if you pass as a girl, when you are presenting 100 percent male... well... something is wrong.

You also have an odd idea of what girls are ... or can be. Drafting isn't a "guy's job", there are plenty of women who work in that field...

Inside, you may feel female (we all know how that is)... but, you can't ignore the reality of your life as it is now (and that is, you look like a guy). You need to calm down, and figure out how to move forward. Your parents don't get to decide how you live (move out).

But, again, it really seems to be more than just parents causing you problems... if you jump into the real world presenting the way you do and demanding everyone treat you super girly... you will face a very harsh reality.

+1

I just can't take you seriously. I call troll, and a bad one at that. Regardless, this thread is going to go on for pages, and my soul will die a little because of it.

+1

[JadeS]

I really hope this is a troll