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Finding Romance

Started by CybeleNV9751, March 27, 2012, 08:19:50 PM

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MacKenzie

  Ugh it's so unbelievably hard to find a straight cisgender man that's interested, accepts you as a woman, and if you're pre-op one that will wait for you. I would date a trans man if we had chemistry together, t-guys are rather cute.  :)
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Kelly J. P.

 While I'm pre-op, I don't really expect straight cis guys to be into me... I'd imagine they'd have to be bi, or pan, or something, but either way I realize that being pre-op kinda sucks in dating. Straight trans guys would probably not want me either, until I'm post op... again, they'd have to be bi or pan.

I don't have any particular genital preference, personally, so I'm free to choose among anyone that's attracted to me.

So... until I'm post-op, I'm just living, and not really looking for romance. If it happens, then I'll pursue it, but I realize that it's a lot to ask for someone to be into girls that have tiny boobs and a penis.
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MacKenzie

Quote from: Kelly J. P. on April 11, 2012, 05:36:55 PM
If it happens, then I'll pursue it, but I realize that it's a lot to ask for someone to be into girls that have tiny boobs and a penis.

   :laugh:
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CybeleNV9751

I could be alone in my opinion, but I just think that if a guy wants a penis up his rear then he wants another guy, more than he wants a woman -- trans or otherwise.
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justmeinoz

But (pun alert!  ;)) if it is two women with anomalous bits, then it is just Lesbian sex, and there's nothing wrong with that in my book! Just biological strap-ons, in my experience, and a lot of fun done right.

Karen.
"Don't ask me, it was on fire when I lay down on it"
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JenJen2011

Quote from: MacKenzie on April 11, 2012, 05:22:15 PM
  Ugh it's so unbelievably hard to find a straight cisgender man that's interested, accepts you as a woman, and if you're pre-op one that will wait for you.

It is difficult but does happen. It takes a REAL man to accept you and love you unconditionally.
"You have one life to live so live it right"
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CybeleNV9751

I agree with you both, justmeinoz and JenJen!  There's nothing wrong with any kind of sex between consenting adults.  But in a relationship, I think it's critical for your partner to love you for who you are -- and not make unrealistic requests from someone you are not.
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