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A couple of changes

Started by sarahcookie21, April 06, 2012, 10:43:05 AM

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sarahcookie21

Alright guys im almost to the three week mark and I wanted to share some of the things that have changed,are changing.
First I wanna say I can think so much clearer,Im much calmer and supportive of my family and friends and although I
feel lonely more and need to hug something at night to fall asleep Im so much happier,my emotions are crazy!!!
Thats the most profound change,the other things are much more physical,im much more organized my memory is better I also pay more attention to things when im cleaning, I groom more..lol
My favorite so far my skin is already softer!!! and my nipples are sooooo sore, and they itch at times. anyway thats really the most ive noticed but its enough that im already a happier better person. I thought yall should know  :D
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Bexi

Nice!

Lol grooming was a big thing for me too - going from a typical guy who more often than not could hardly be bothered shaving most mornings to a 'normal' woman required quite a shift in my thinking! Nowadays I wake up early specifically for these small routines and it definitely makes a difference!

(Im still a bit hopeless with the hair though! :embarrassed:)
Sometimes you have to trust people to understand you are not perfect
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Beth Andrea

I used to get up 45 mins before work...23 minutes from out of bed to out the door--sh!t, shower, shave, followed by a 15 min commute--now I have to get up an hour and a half to get all preety and stuff.

I love it, love it, love it... :-*
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sarahcookie21

I feel like everyday is certainly a rollercoaster ride but I feel like im more myself I dont have to try,and its nice its very relaxing :)
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Bexi

Quote from: sarahcookie21 on April 06, 2012, 11:41:39 AM
I feel like everyday is certainly a rollercoaster ride but I feel like im more myself I dont have to try,and its nice its very relaxing :)
I agree. Its like i've now got something important to me that im really focussed on and determined to see through. After accepting that I was going to change and realizing that I knew this deep down for ages, a great weight fell from my shoulders and I feel much happier than I have for a long time.  :)

I can empathize with the loneliness too, but I don't think I could/want to introduce someone into the craziness of my life at this particular point in my transistion  :-\
Sometimes you have to trust people to understand you are not perfect
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Renee D

Biggest thing is that i am much, much happier which seems to help me be more tolerant of other people and their silliness.   As far as getting ready for work, that only takes me a half hour at most and only 10 minutes of it is for makeup, the rest is shower, hair scrunching and figuring out what I want to wear.
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sarahcookie21

I agree it wouldnt be fair,I just stick to watching tv in pj's with ice cream and my big teddi :)
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sarahcookie21

I mean really Ive always like to be held and comforted rather than the latter so reall Ive alwyas felt a little lonely in that aspect im hoing that will get easier someday.
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JoanneB

Quote from: Jaime on April 06, 2012, 11:57:36 AM
As far as getting ready for work, that only takes me a half hour at most and only 10 minutes of it is for makeup, the rest is shower, hair scrunching and figuring out what I want to wear.

Sometimes it takes me 30 minutes just to figure out what to wear, and that is after I thought I had it figured out the night before!
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Catherine Sarah

Quote from: JoanneB on April 08, 2012, 12:00:03 PM
Sometimes it takes me 30 minutes just to figure out what to wear, and that is after I thought I had it figured out the night before!

Know EXATLY what you are talking about. In the old days as a guy, it was a no brainer. Shirt and pants, what can go wrong with that. Can be done almost successfully with your eyes closed.

Now being in training on the other side of the ledger; completely different story. Can even get to a point of being fully dressed and think ..........  Nah!! the other outfit suits my mood better. Presto changeo!

Enjoy it Joanne, it's you.
Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine




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