More Than Bodies
April 11, 2012 at 9:00 am Natalie Reed
http://freethoughtblogs.com/nataliereed/2012/04/11/more-than-bodies/There's a lot that's frustrating about the way the discourse on ->-bleeped-<- and transsexuality is framed in our deeply cisnormative culture. So much that it sometimes feels impossible to ever really get through it. I often feel neck deep in this, all these little problems, misconceptions, ways of structuring the conversation, unsubstantiated and unexamined assumptions, foundations of positioning not-quite-so-unbiased perspectives as "objective", "neutral", "common sense", the "natural" jump-off point for chatting about who and what and why we are and mean.
And I can't possibly cover it all. Lord knows I've been trying, but I can't. There's just too much to unpack. Is GID really a disorder? A disorder of what? Before / after pictures. "Real" names. "Passing" (and what, "failing"?). Detransitions. Regret. Gatekeeping. Autonomy. The endless questions. The questions as the assertion of the power dynamic. The Other. The self-consciousness. Self-consciousness as an extension of oppression. Morphological privileges. "Male" bodies and "female" bodies, cells, tissues (bulls--t)."Fascinating". "Disgusting". "Special". "Unnatural". Is biology destiny? Is neurobiology destiny? Is destiny biology? Born this way! Social constructs! Stochastic gendering! "Objective" genders? "Biological realities"? "Appropriation"? "Invasion"? "Comfort levels"? "Labels"? "Buying into stereotypes"? Self-definition. Erasure. Ridicule. Violence. One in twelve. One in eight. One in five, one in five. 44%, 96%, 0.3%. Who is feminism "for"? Second wave, third wave, fourth wave. Bois and grrls. Please Select Sex: M/F. Is being trans an identity, a condition, a burden, a blessing? Cissexism, cisnormativity, cissupremacy. "But, like, how do you know?" Our "responsibilities"! Our sexualities! Our sexual responsibilities! Our "faith" in gender. Our "rebellion" from gender. Our "sins" and "arrogance" and "delusion" and "self-hatred" and whatever you need to think to not think about us. Our marking as "trans", ever transitional, ever in movement, across, never at home. Exiles.