Ask Matt: Commitment and the Transitioning Trans Man
April 12, 2012 by Matt Kailey
http://tranifesto.com/2012/04/12/ask-matt-commitment-and-the-transitioning-trans-man/A reader writes: "I'm a cis heterosexual woman (although I have enjoyed bisexual affairs in the past, just not recently). I met a young man at work who I really like. For his privacy here, I'll call him Clint. In February there was a company-wide meeting with Clint and HR announcing that he was going forward with his transition and would only be referred to by male pronouns and by his chosen male name. Luckily we have a very accepting supportive company and everyone has been lovely.
"My question is about my own relationship with Clint. He comes over to my house a lot and we make out. I'd like us to be more than just friends with benefits, but every time I bring it up, he says he doesn't want to talk about it or doesn't want to label our relationship. He is very generous in bed, but won't let me reciprocate in any way beyond kissing or sometimes massaging him.
