I've been dealing with those since I was 10-years-old :'P. I've always just left them alone since they don't personally bother me.
I don't know about the sophisticated look thing. I guess some people do. For those that don't, there's plenty of inexpensive products that hide the hairs :'D.
I personally don't like faux hawks, but that's because mohawks have a special place in my heart. I would also never recommend a faux hawk for a transman since so many share this same style. I can't begin to count the amount of transmen I've seen with it @_@. Unfortunately I can't actually recommend a cut. Get whatever you like and flatters you I guess? I'm no good at this! D:
Since I have curly hair (that I love), I decided to go for more of a mophead look :'P. Unfortunately it makes me look too much like a young boy xD. The light-up shoes and Ninja Turtle wallet likely don't help @_@. Oh well, it makes purchasing alcohol more interesting :'P.