Hi Everyone,
A very simple solution to your dilemma. A Statutory Declaration stating that your female name and your male name are one in the same person.
That is legal document, and in Oz is maintained by the Oaths Act 1900. This act plainly sets out there are substantial penalties for making false and misleading statements within the declaration.
If anyone you present this legal document to doesn't understand or refuses to accept it, make sure they are aware of the penalties available to them for their actions.
Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine