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Girls, would you date an FtM?

Started by Cody Jensen, April 23, 2012, 06:11:50 PM

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Felix

If I was a girl I would date me so hard. I would date me frequently and I would feel lucky for the opportunity. :angel:
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Kitty_Babe

I don't think it really matter's.. men are 'men' after all, your all the same !! :D

So of course, I would if it were the 'right' man :)
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Amazon D

Quote from: Kitty_Babe on April 24, 2012, 04:46:34 AM
I don't think it really matter's.. men are 'men' after all, your all the same !! :D

So of course, I would if it were the 'right' man :)

personally i don't think all men are men or all women are women. There are too many variables to make a generailzed statement like that. Yes i want to let FTMs know they are respected as men but when it comes to cis males or cis females there is too much variation to give them that persona. Some people are really crazy and do not have any semblence of being a male or female. They just are too wild and well for myself i can't give them the total respect as a male or female. To me they are barely human. To be human a person needs to encompass many attributes. Many so called males are not capable and are just too violent for me to call them males. Male or female to me has certain standards. Its basically why we know when someone says they are male even though they were born with a so called female body, that they are males. There just is way too much that a person needs to have to be male or female in MY BOOK. thats my feelings..and i will not argue my point with anyone here. Its just how i feel as you do.
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Ms. OBrien CVT

As others have said, if we clicked I would date an FtM.  Gender does not make the person, it is what is in the inside that makes them.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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apple pie

To those who say gender does not matter and only the person matters... I want to ask you guys:
Doesn't sexual attraction feel different from when you just like someone a lot??

Like I said earlier, for me, I am close with many girl friends... I really love them, some are so similar to me and I could share EVERYTHING with them...
But when I see guys, they give me a special feeling of attraction that's very different, that makes my heart jump.
It's something I generally don't feel towards girls.

Don't you guys feel the two differently (not guys vs. girls but sexual attraction vs. close friendship)?
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AbraCadabra

Quote from: Felix on April 24, 2012, 04:45:51 AM
If I was a girl I would date me so hard. I would date me frequently and I would feel lucky for the opportunity. :angel:

LOVE IT!... and if I were a man I'd be pretty nuts over me too. But then it would have to be someone out of the ordinary, just how things happen to be, hum  ::)

Axélle
Some say: "Free sex ruins everything..."
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Sephirah

Quote from: apple pie on April 24, 2012, 07:06:50 AM
To those who say gender does not matter and only the person matters... I want to ask you guys:
Doesn't sexual attraction feel different from when you just like someone a lot??

I don't feel sexual attraction towards anyone so for me it's a non-issue. Weird, perhaps, but lust just doesn't enter into it.

And assuming I did feel sexually attracted to someone, even then that alone wouldn't be enough for me to want to date them.

To answer your question, sort of - yes I do see a romantic relationship as something different to a close friendship, but for me the former is a progression of the latter, if it's the right person. I've never dated anyone who hasn't first started off as a friend and the relationship has grown from there. I believe that the strongest relationships are forged that way, rather than based on sexual desire, which can run hot or cold on a whim, or disappear entirely when you see someone else who pushes your buttons slightly more. I tend to be guided more by my heart than my urges.

But that's just me. Everyone's different. :)
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Eve87

Sure.
I have my list of criteria for someone to be datable.
Gender and sex are not on there.
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Alainaluvsu

i wouldnt date a trans man.  Im going though the same baggage and tbh his would be too much
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Miki

Felix makes me swoon, so, hmm..I guess that answers that...  ;p

It's all about the person, not the label for me.  The most interesting thing I've discovered about baggage is that it becomes a lot less heavy and burdensome when you've got someone special to help you carry your load, and you theirs.

-Miki
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RachaelAnn22

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Siobhan

Totally would,once im happy with myself and have my act together :)
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Constance

Quote from: Cody Jensen on April 23, 2012, 06:11:50 PM
I saw someone post a "would you date an MtF" thread in the FtM section so I thought why not post one here?

Be honest  :)
As I'm attracted primarily to kindness, I would only rule out those FtMs who were unkind. But, I wouldn't date an unkind person regardless of their gender or sex.

So, Yes, I would date an FtM if he was a kind person.


K Style Addiction

If they were interested in me, sure why not.
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain, I like watchin' the puddles gather rain.

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Joeyboo~ :3

Quote from: Felix on April 24, 2012, 03:22:32 AM
Joey, you okay? He wasn't all of us. I mean, my dick is massive and I'm a giant manly man with a hairy chest and huge arms that are good at chopping firewood. Or maybe I'm not, but whatever.

Careful how you play, pls.

We're back together babes.
Haha, I kinda forgot to tell everyone.
I was just playing around in my comment earlier, sorry for that. <3
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A

Someone who probably understands me, who can support me and respect me? With probably a good-looking face? Let me think... Of course!

As a bonus, I'm not sure what my sexual orientation is going to be yet, so chances are that I wouldn't be too offset by his genitals, in the very hypothetical situation that we would have sex.
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MiaOhMya!

Quote from: Felix on April 24, 2012, 04:45:51 AM
If I was a girl I would date me so hard. I would date me frequently and I would feel lucky for the opportunity. :angel:

I dunno felix,  I'm slowly developing a superficial crush on your photo! Yeah sure, I'd cuddle you so hard! ;)

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EmilyElizabeth

I certainly would, a lot less intimidating than a cis male for sure...

EDIT: And I mean that because of the fact that I don't have to awkwardly explain my situation


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kelly_aus

Quote from: MiaOhMya! on April 24, 2012, 05:58:22 PM
I dunno felix,  I'm slowly developing a superficial crush on your photo! Yeah sure, I'd cuddle you so hard! ;)

You'd have to get in the queue.. There's a few of us that have a crush on Felix...

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