To those who say gender does not matter and only the person matters... I want to ask you guys:
Doesn't sexual attraction feel different from when you just like someone a lot??
Like I said earlier, for me, I am close with many girl friends... I really love them, some are so similar to me and I could share EVERYTHING with them...
But when I see guys, they give me a special feeling of attraction that's very different, that makes my heart jump.
It's something I generally don't feel towards girls.
Don't you guys feel the two differently (not guys vs. girls but sexual attraction vs. close friendship)?