I have a friend, a GG, bio mother of one, about whom virtually everybody assumes she is a MTF.
She's a flight attendant and needed a maternity uniform in the fifth month of her pregnancy...while applying the clerk just flat out said: 'what do YOU need a maternity uniform for???'
She answered, while pointing at her baby bump: 'what do you think THIS is? A beer gut belly'?
Anyway, we were standing and talking in a busy highstreet....and then I saw a group of young guys staring at her and then shouting 'look!! That's a guy!!'
Of course she heard them...but she couldn't see their faces, while standing with her back to them....and her facial expression told me she thought they're talking about me........very, very, very embarrasing.
One of my closest friends is a totally unpassable MTF. Very masculine looking, tall, very masculine in the way she comports herself, her bodylanguage etc.
All that combined with a cup DD swinging from side to side when she walks, while moving her shoulders and upperbody.
And guess what? People stare, but not gawking and I can tell they're very intimidated by her looks and size.
No one, men, women, young, old, dares to utter a word because she's frightening looking.
For some reasong people focus so much on them when we're together....that I become 'invisible' to those very people.
They simply pay me no attention at all.
