Clitoris envy?

[suzifrommd]

Don't know if this is too explicit for this space, but it's something I'm really curious about.

Recall that in one of his more sexist moments, Freud claimed that women had "penis envy" where they wished they had a male organ.

Am I the only guy who ever experienced "clitoris envy"?

I know I'd have a hard time find a binary guy to admit to it.

But, I mean the penis, it doesn't matter how eager his partner is, he has to get all bulked up on hormones to bust his way in. Not enough, hormones, not enough bulk, he's left out in the cold.

The clitoris has more choices. She can get heavily involved if she's in the mood, or she can just sit back and let the action just glide over her. (I suppose it's probably more complex than that...)

I'm mostly serious about this. Are there bio-males that have felt this?

[Kelly-087]

Im not exactly sure how to take personifying sex organs..

But the clitoris is essentially the head of the penis.
They both started out with the same cell position, just the penis got a bit bigger and was attached to something else.

[Kinkly]

I don't know enough about girl bits to be envious of them I have often been envious of the female ability to hold their bladder bettween stops on a long bus trip and empty out out at every stop.  I'm trying to find why that is hard for me and if it is actually gender related or due to some medical issue.

[Keaira]

I don't know enough about girl bits to be envious of them I have often been envious of the female ability to hold their bladder bettween stops on a long bus trip and empty out out at every stop.  I'm trying to find why that is hard for me and if it is actually gender related or due to some medical issue.

That's a female ability? I doubt it. I've got a cast iron bladder and can hold it for over 4 hours when walking. Sitting I can do 6. Always have been.

[BlueSloth]

Aren't female bladders smaller?

Anyway, about clitoris envy...  hmmm, I haven't thought of it that way.

I don't actually think about what I want between my legs as much as what I want my partner to have between zir/his/her/whatever legs.  And I don't have much of a preference for either one, although I think it's good to have at least one penis in the relationship... and I prefer that penis to be attached to my partner.  If I was starting from scratch and designing my ideal body, I think it'd be...  I don't know...  intersex? 

As it is, I'm ok with having a penis, but I see it as just a fun toy that happens to be stuck to my crotch.  I do envy multiple orgasms though.  I think.  Seems like it'd be hard to want to stop...

[Kinkly]

That's a female ability? I doubt it. I've got a cast iron bladder and can hold it for over 4 hours when walking. Sitting I can do 6. Always have been.

Maybe it is just a medical issue of mine hope it is something that can be fixed.

[Andarta]

 Not sure if this counts but i've heard on multiple occasions men talking about how women have more fun down 'there' with an undertone of jealousy.(no pun intended)

[ativan]

As it is, I'm OK with having a penis, but I see it as just a fun toy that happens to be stuck to my crotch.  I do envy multiple orgasms though.  I think.  Seems like it'd be hard to want to stop...

Learn to relax more and stop thinking of an orgasm as ejaculating (as fun as that is). You can have extended orgasms and multiple ones within short time periods. And yes you will want to, until your body just can't take anymore (exhaustion). It's less of a crotch related orgasm as opposed to a full out body orgasm. Lasts longer and is very pleasurable, just takes a different approach.

Ativan

[lilacwoman]

it might be revealing to ask what women Freud based his nonsense remark on...I've had loads of conversatioons with GGs over the last few years and I haven't found one who envies men having penisses. 

even if the need for a sudden pee is taken into account they just say 'we can hold pee a long time' .

so just who or what were Freud's women?  Factual or imaginary?

I rather think that women were having a laugh at his expense.

[Carbon]

Eh, Frued founded the psychological tradition of Making Stuff Up that is the basis of modern psychology.