Tightening of vagina

[Indian.angel]

i am 3 years post op, after my surgery.... i hv to get admitted in hospital after 2 months again coz vaginal fistula. dosctor treated it but wound wasnt healing up. doctor discouraged me so much... dat i stopped doing dailation and was very disturbed coz urine started passing through vaginal hole...now i am so tired i also want to be with somebody wanna hv sex too but wen someone tried to do something i get shy and dont allow to do anything.... please guide me how and what to do to get my depth back...and what are the risks and complications

[Flan]

Might be able to regain some with dilation under anesthesia, but a gynecological reconstructive surgeon would probably be the best local choice to get things fixed up again, assuming the urethral fistula isn't part of the problem, in which case a urological surgeon would be the first step.