My first date!!

[Alainaluvsu]

So things are moving so fast! First I get fired, then I start laser and start full time, then my name change, now a date! I love my life!

Anyways, starting off he knew I'm trans. He's fine with it. At first he was worried somebody would see us together, then he kinda started to calm down, especially after the waiter came back with a single ticket and straight up handed it to him lol!

I'm hoping he dropped his fears of being seen with me. I think he has. We were at Walmart picking out a movie and he was pretty touchy in public. It was sweet and refreshing He didn't mention anything sexual the whole night at all. At the end he gave me a nice hug and kinda held my hand as he walked off.

So is it too dangerous to hang out at his house alone with him as we watch a movie?

[Siobhan]

Its great you had fun, but be really carefull! Im guessing you are physically much weaker after hrt, so less able to defend yourself.
if you do go make sure somone else knows where you are, and with who, when to expect you back.etc. Make sure he knows that someone else knows where you are also.
Good luck!

[Alainaluvsu]

Yeah, he works with one of my good friends, so people would know what's going on.

[~RoadToTrista~]

Gratz Alaina, I'm happy for you. ^.^

I doubt it, but you should always be prepared to handle a potential disaster. Definitely don't forget your cellphone gurl. Maybe some pepper spray too.......

[V M]

Sounds like this is a new experience for him also and he's kinda nervous about it    I get the vibe that he genuinely likes you though

Take it slow and don't be afraid but be ready for if things go bad    I'm hoping for things to go well

Keep us posted 

Hugs

V M

[Michelle G]

Congrats and enjoy yourself

Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or  just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed

[Alainaluvsu]

Congrats and enjoy yourself

Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or  just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed

Good idea.

Thanks for the congrats yall! I'm excited. I know he likes me and I do like him. I'll keep it as an option if he wants to watch a movie with me I'm so excited!

[Butterflyhugs]

You go girl!   

[justmeinoz]

Nice to hear a good news story.   I hope it works out well.

Karen.

[Alexis]

Sounds like it was wonderful! Really Happy for You

Congrats and enjoy yourself

Keep an open message "ready to send" to a friend who knows you are on a date, if you need help or  just to check in the message box is there when you open the phone...saves a bit of time if needed

In addition to the msg, if you're still worried about it, there's a great app called 'circleof6'

[Michelle G]

Sounds like it was wonderful! Really Happy for You
In addition to the msg, if you're still worried about it, there's a great app called 'circleof6'

thats right! I forgot about that one, good suggestion Alexis

[Dale]

Alaina I am so happy for you. Its a new experience, take it slow. Probably best advise......follow your gut feelings. They are usually right

[Alainaluvsu]

My gut is positive with this guy but I can see his age being a concern. He's 22 and I'm 29.

[CryssL]

Stay cautious but try to relax too!  Congrats!

[Michelle G]

You cougar you!!!

That just means "you" are in control...boys that age have a way of listening to older girls.

when I was 22 I went out with a 29yo girl, I thought...OMG she is all grown up and old, lol  I look back on it now and just laugh

[Angelique1994]

So things are moving so fast! First I get fired, then I start laser and start full time, then my name change, now a date! I love my life!

Anyways, starting off he knew I'm trans. He's fine with it. At first he was worried somebody would see us together, then he kinda started to calm down, especially after the waiter came back with a single ticket and straight up handed it to him lol!

I'm hoping he dropped his fears of being seen with me. I think he has. We were at Walmart picking out a movie and he was pretty touchy in public. It was sweet and refreshing He didn't mention anything sexual the whole night at all. At the end he gave me a nice hug and kinda held my hand as he walked off.

So is it too dangerous to hang out at his house alone with him as we watch a movie?

congratulations girl i hope thing work out great between u and him. but make sure u bring pepper spray wen u go to his house, just to be safe. but anyway i hope im as lucky as u are to get my first bf cause guys where i live are all country but i guess they are attracted to me since they tell me if i had a vagina they would be all over me but unfortunatly i hav the opposite so i guess i may have to wait till i get SRS to get a bf

[Alainaluvsu]

You cougar you!!!

That just means "you" are in control...boys that age have a way of listening to older girls.

when I was 22 I went out with a 29yo girl, I thought...OMG she is all grown up and old, lol  I look back on it now and just laugh

Hah! I'm really into guys in their 30s but... I figured I'd give him a chance since he was so sweet. When he first saw me, he asked his friend if I was 21 yet, lol!!

congratulations girl i hope thing work out great between u and him. but make sure u bring pepper spray wen u go to his house, just to be safe. but anyway i hope im as lucky as u are to get my first bf cause guys where i live are all country but i guess they are attracted to me since they tell me if i had a vagina they would be all over me but unfortunatly i hav the opposite so i guess i may have to wait till i get SRS to get a bf

Thanks!

Baby girl you're young. You'll learn there are quite a few open minded guys out there, but you have to find the ones that don't care what others say or think. You're pretty, you'll get a man soon I'm sure

[rachl]

Seriously awesome. Sounds like a nice first date.

I'd be cautious about the age thing. That's just me; maybe he's really mature for 22, but I haven't had good experiences dating younger people.

[LadySerraphym]

My gut is positive with this guy but I can see his age being a concern. He's 22 and I'm 29.

You cougar you. LOL

Congratulations Sweety. I am very happy for you. I think you deserve some happiness. I can say that you are a lot of fun to hang with so I am sure he thinks so as well. Let me know how things go. I want all the details...... LOL

[Alainaluvsu]

You cougar you. LOL

Congratulations Sweety. I am very happy for you. I think you deserve some happiness. I can say that you are a lot of fun to hang with so I am sure he thinks so as well. Let me know how things go. I want all the details...... LOL

I will baby doll. I'm glad to see you on the boards