Hi itsallafallacy,
Another big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. There is a mountain of information, resources and friendships here for you, so join in and enjoy.
You are a special type of person, wanting to understands your friends like this. Not many people like yourself, go outside the norms to try and understand each other. Thank you for being so kind and considerate. That's special.
Another member here also believes labels are useless things. Annah believes they should only be use for candy packages.

I look forward to hearing more from you in time to come, in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine