Dresses

[jasper3]

"King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

LGBT is "sin"

[Michelle G]

yikes....that doesnt sound very fair

[Edge]

That book was written by a human several hundred years after Christ and based on a person's interpretation (and it would be unreasonable to assume that none of that person's own beliefs or bias got in there whether they meant to or not).
If God exists and I ever meet him, I'll ask him what his views are. That's just my opinion though.

I'm starting to feel sorry for her fiance as well. Sorry I don't have any advice other than to stick up for yourself, but that's a conclusion you're probably going to have to come to on your own.
Out of curiosity, how old are you? Aka how long will it be until you can move out?

[Catherine Sarah]

"King James Bible (Cambridge Ed.)
Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

LGBT is "sin"

Without taking too much out of context on such a brief passage, then LGB, may be sin, but T, basically NO.

A full dissertation on this subject alone may take several hours and many sheets of paper. And as it's 3:35, I'm off to my beauty sleep.

Be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
And give a lot of thought and planning to your exit strategy. I'm serious. For your own health.

[jasper3]

That book was written by a human several hundred years after Christ and based on a person's interpretation (and it would be unreasonable to assume that none of that person's own beliefs or bias got in there whether they meant to or not).
If God exists and I ever meet him, I'll ask him what his views are. That's just my opinion though.

I'm starting to feel sorry for her fiance as well. Sorry I don't have any advice other than to stick up for yourself, but that's a conclusion you're probably going to have to come to on your own.
Out of curiosity, how old are you? Aka how long will it be until you can move out?

King James (king of England idk the reign) had his bishop or someone of his catholic church rewrite, editing, the bible in order to control his citizens even more so

And I'm about to be 16 in August, I can't move out legally until I have a job, high school diploma usually, and a place to reside; all of which I do not, I do not even have any friends to stay with temporarily.

[jasper3]

Good night, Catherine

[Catherine Sarah]

And I'm about to be 16 in August, I can't move out legally until I have a job, high school diploma usually, and a place to reside; all of which I do not, I do not even have any friends to stay with temporarily.

OK. Slightly different ball game. There must be some aid agency locally, community heath, child protection agency available through you public health system, local juvenile court, school counselor, that can understand the unreasonable requests being made upon you, which in some cases could be perceived as cruelty, bullying or harassment. They will be your protection and your voice in a very dysfunctional family. Again for your own well being, seek outside assistance immediately.

With love and respect
Catherine

[jasper3]

I can't if ive went to child protection agency and I don't want my mother thrown in jail and I don't want her to tell them anything about me (she told them my boyfriend was a paedophile, WHICH HE IS NOT) and she almost got him arrested and I can't go to the school counsellor, I don't like any of them because they've caused me to get beaten by my mother even when I told them they CANNOT call her and tell her I got a discipline referral (I got in trouble for fighting in the girls locker room because this girl started it and called me a ->-bleeped-<-got piece of sh*t and punched me in the face and I grabbed her breast and pulled her to the floor where I was and broke her nose) and I can't go to a juvenile court, it'd look horrid on my record for application to medical school

[Edge]

King James (king of England idk the reign)

He was king of England right after Elizabeth I and king of Scotland before that.
I read the Macbeth was written for him. Apparently, he had an interest in witches. :/

Hmm yeah being a minor in that situation sucks. I wish I could offer advice, but I don't have any. Stay safe, take care of your needs as best you can, and hold on to your sanity as much as you can.

[Kitty_Babe]

My sister LOVES pink

Her walls are pink
Her bed is pink  — it's hilarious cuz her fiancé sleeps in the bed with her and he is weirded out by all the pink
The carpet is pink
Most of her normal wardrobe is pink
Her wedding dress is white but her garter is hot pink and her make up is pinkish white with sparkles....

Her wedding is pink
Her about to be husband is going to wear a pink tie and vest hahaha xD

All sounds very cute

Personally, it being your sis, think you should grin and bear it just for one day, after all this is HER day NOT yours

Just saying hun, have fun either way !

Katherine.

[jasper3]

Its ok I've settled on just wearing the dress and dealing with everything until my bf gets out of college and I may move in with him if we're still together, or even if we aren't, I'm sure he would let me, he's nice like that. so maybe just 2-4 more years of this left?

[Edge]

I suggest putting your foot down on the glasses issue though. You need those to see.

[jasper3]

My dad just says to do what she wants I'm even getting hair extensions (which I cannot take out) and I have to dye my hair a boring brown just to match her hair and the flower girl