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Started by Dawn Heart, June 22, 2012, 05:36:30 PM

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Dawn Heart

I have so much to say here, so I'll start with what is really happy news all the way. I was with some close friends about a night or so ago and was able to come out to them with their full support. They were really there for me and I mean with wide open arms. I really felt overwhelmed by the combination of hearing myself do this and the support I received.

They know the situation I am living in and therefore, the difficulties I will face during transition. Guess what? They invited me to stay with them as long as I need a place to stay while I make this major life change. One of them even said if anyone gives me any (expletive deleted) about my identity while he's present with me where ever we may be, he'll personally take care of it himself.

One of these friends is a cis female who has said she'll walk through all of this with me and sorta be that "sister" every girl wants.

I feel so lucky!
There's more to me than what I thought
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Edge

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gennee

That's so great of them. You ARE fortunate to have such wonderful friends
Be who you are.
Make a difference by being a difference.   :)

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Dawn Heart

Thanks, both of you!

I was with another small group of close friends recently over the weekend and told them. They were really there and really supportive! I was imagining the worst, and yet I saw that it does get better! For those of you who haven't replied, I know maybe you have your reasons not to, but, I hope my experiences serve as something you can use to feel better about yourselves if you have little support.

Being ME and being open about it has really been a huge weight off of my shoulders and has brought peace for me. That I am lucky enough to have such cool friends that accept me has made it that much better. I'm not afraid anymore, I refuse to be. I know that some people will eventually have something unsupportive to say, some of them will be hurtful, I'm sure.

I'm sure some of my family will try to interfere as is the usual protocol for those specific people who think they are the moral police. I'll have plenty of ammunition to throw back at em if need be. I only want that to be last resort though.
There's more to me than what I thought
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wendy

It is nice to have friends along journey!

Congratulations and spend time developing friendships!
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