Great point Lyric. I do feel I am a woman and don't sweat if some of the things I do aren't "uber fem" like doing my own home repairs, talking cars with the guys or riding my motorcycle. I enjoy this stuff and if it makes me "less feminine", it doesn't matter because I am still a woman. I'm sure not many women are at the home store buying plumbing fittings or electrical wire, but then I'm not going to not do these things just so i can appear helpless and feminine.
