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Why do some transsexual women dress like my old nan?

Started by Yvonne, April 07, 2007, 05:03:56 PM

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Yvonne

Why do some transsexual women dress like my old nan?
This is not the norm for female attire and some are very beautiful but choose to dress very badly.
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Maebh

Quote from: Yvonne on April 07, 2007, 05:03:56 PM
Why do some transsexual women dress like my old nan?
This is not the norm for female attire and some are very beautiful but choose to dress very badly.


Sorry I'm a bit confused there:
Why is your nan not a female? Do all other women dress well?

LL&R
Maebh
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Yvonne

Quote from: Maebh on April 07, 2007, 05:22:28 PM
sorry I'm a bit confused there:
Why is your nan not a female? Do all other women dress well?

LL&R
Maebh

My nan is old; she is 94.  I'm talking about young, attractive transsexual women that dress like 94 year old ladies?
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taru

Why should we follow fashion or dress prettily? Most of my GG friends diss those things.

I want to dress in a comfortable fashion and be happy with myself. Why should I care whether other people think it is pretty or not?
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Kimberly

*shrug* Why not?

Ya have to remember that very few of us are anywhere close to happy with our physical appearances. *shrug* Why try and show off when we are basically ashamed?

As for me, *shrug* I am too skinny, no front and very scared.
Compound that with it not being proper in my mind to wear what I want while I am like this and you generally have a lack of interest in attire.


;) But, I do not think I was ever accused of being young nor attractive either...
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Elizabeth

Ever watch that show "What not to wear"? Bad fashion sense is no stranger to GG either.

Love always,
Elizabeth
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Robyn

Probably lack of experience and/or it's what fits from the Thrift Store rack.  It takes time to develop a fashion sense.  (Thrift stores are an excellent place for learning sizes, styles and colors without breaking the bank.)

I began my transition in my late 50s and bought what I thought grandmothers should wear.  That didn't last long.  Once full time, I realized that older women can still look classy even if wearing the usual slacks and tops found in suburbia.

Robyn,
who has packed two slinky (for me) formals for our cruise
as well as a slit skirt that was not appropriate for office wear.
When we walk to the edge of all the light we have and take the step into the darkness of the unknown, we must believe that one of two things will happen. There will be something solid for us to stand on or we will be taught to fly. — Patrick Overton
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Suzy

Are you talking about me again?
LOL
I know that building a stealth wardrobe isn't easy.  Maybe some only wear what they can get their hands on or afford.


Kristi

P.S.  What Not To Wear is a goldmine of information for us.
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togetherwecan

GG's grow up learnng about clothes and most TG's do not. Many TG's are in hiding and as someone else here said, maybe they wear whatever they can get their hands on and in quantities that are easily hidden.
Developing your own personal style takes time.

I know plenty of GG's who dress like the ol church lady from SNL.

I know GG's and TG's that don't dress their ages, that to me seems major. I can get away with some of the younger stuff because I look younger than I am but in general people will always gawk at you whether you are TG or GG if you dress too young or too old.

Also there is comfort and personal gracefulness.

I am full on girly however I am also a tomboy. I have some sexy sexy clothes and more stilettos than anyone I know, but hey I love my cammo pants or a pair of low ride jeans too. One thing I rarely do is t-shirts tho. I hate t-shirts...for wearing anyways.
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LynnER

Hey?!?! whats wrong with Tee shirts?   Those are one of my mainstays LoL...  But I look good in them too so *shrugs*  Just remembe not too baggy... and generaly not too tight and allways get the right cut LoL
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seldom

Actually it is not always bad fashion sense.  Sometimes it could be good, it is just knowing how to pull it off.  There is an entire cult of fashion in Chicago called "grandma chic".  Young women who dress as old women.  Kid you not.


Much of it also cultural and subcultural.  Since most trans people often lack this perspective due to social isolation it often leaves them in a bit of an odd place with regards to how they dress.  They literally lack this perspective, or it may be they have this perspective. 

As strange as this sounds this is a big part of the reason younger trans people transition much better.  They often are bit more tied to some subcultural perspective and are part of a culture which is SIGNIFICANTLY more tolerant of TS.  It is easier to assimilate. 

Additionally, as I stated earlier, sometimes there is no interest to be beautiful or pretty (I have no such interest).  I was watching one of these fashion shows where they ripped apart a tomboy mountain climber, I was pretty deeply offended, because there was nothing wrong with this persons clothing or expression, she was just more outdoorsy than most women.    Kind of upset me because it was very narrow minded.

With that being said, I don't think I would be caught dead in some womens clothing.  It does not fit me or my personality.

There is really no "norm" in female attire or any attire.  It is honestly finding what fits you and your personality.  We all have a bit of an adjustment period with regards to that, and it takes some people more time than others. 
Personally I am in my own almost stereotypical adjustment period. 
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HelenW

Maybe they feel that their bodies are not what they should be yet and dress to cover and hide everything?

My Oma in America died when I was only 9 years old so I don't remember her very well but I won't ever dress the way she did,  I don't think her kind of clothes are available any more, LOL!

hugs & smiles
helen
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togetherwecan

Quote from: LynnER on April 07, 2007, 07:41:27 PM
Hey?!?! whats wrong with Tee shirts?   Those are one of my mainstays LoL...  But I look good in them too so *shrugs*  Just remembe not too baggy... and generaly not too tight and allways get the right cut LoL

hehehe Lynn I bet you look good in a tshirt, I however do not. My waist is what makes my body curvy because it is pretty small compared tot he rest of me  ;)
Now that halter you are wearing in your avi...I wanna borrow it!  ;D
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Attis

Hey, don't knock the SCA re-enacters! They're cool! *puts on the greek geek wear* :3

Seriously though, I've had the same issue too, but mine was starting from the *shudders* Walmart Big and Tall section. And talk about frumpy clothing! One thing that always bothers me, is why do folks think you should wear overly frumpy clothing as you get old? I'm not say you should dress like a 20 year old clubkid, but I do like clean lines in my clothes. They should be more akin to those pretty modernist buildings where form follows function and all that jazz. But that's just me. :3

-- Brede
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gothique11

Yeah, some people dress pretty badly. I do alright, but I think it's because I know my style and I've also got my girlfriend to help me as well as my other two roommates to offer suggestions. Bad thing is that I badly need clothes again because my body has changed so much. The way I dress also makes me stand out a bit -- but a lot of it has to do with my purple and black hair, too. LOL

I think a lot of people just aren't sure how to dress and figuring out your style can be hard. Also, clothes are expensive, so it can take time to build up a wardrobe.


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Fer

Why?  same reason some women dress like grannies or prostitutes, its down to choice. Incidentally, have you considered that the reason you think this is because they are the ones you notice? Most transgender people, in my experience, dress very carefully to fit in with their chosen gender, and you would be hard pressed to tell them apart from anyone else.

The laws of God, the laws of man, He may keep that will and can; Not I. Let God and man decree Laws for themselves and not for me; And if my ways are not as theirs Let them mind their own affairs. - A. E. Housman
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katia

i can't say i dress like your nan because i've never met her! lol
as fer's answer here points out,  i suspect you're not seeing many ts's dressed like your nan, they're pretty difficult to read, those girls [really]try hard to blend, and they manage it with [excellence].  when we do dress as your nan, it's probably just because like most girls, we dont need to wear our best party clothes 24/7. i wear jeans and a teeshirt most days, with courts and lippy, just the same as thousands of other females do. :P
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JaneX

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melissa90299

Quote from: Yvonne on April 07, 2007, 05:24:47 PM
Quote from: Maebh on April 07, 2007, 05:22:28 PM
sorry I'm a bit confused there:
Why is your nan not a female? Do all other women dress well?

LL&R
Maebh

My nan is old; she is 94.  I'm talking about young, attractive transsexual women that dress like 94 year old ladies?

It is called RETRO! Very fashionable.
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Kendall

I am not TS, but I apologize if I look ugly or have poor fashion sense.
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