I'm way too much of a tomboy to really deck myself out all that much.
I mean sure, my shirt and pants will be a little form fitting and cute, and I might put up my hair in an interesting way, but I haven't ever really gone all that "slutty" for things like clubs and stuff.
I'm just a big one on comfortable "boarder style" clothing and girl tailored cargo pants and a semi loose T-shirt are both my style and comfortable.
Of course, I've been in denial of my gender identity for a long time, so it remains to be seen what styles I try out in the future.
*shrug*
I think the main reason why a lot of guys will stare or advance is not so much brainpower problems or insensativity. Its definately not something I would blame on women either.
I really think its more an issue that society teaches guys to be aggressive in pursuit and dating. So they'll feel like they aren't a man if they don't stare at me with their friends or hit on me in annoying ways. It isn't that they have small brains or don't think with anything but their penises (although I know a few that do.) Its just nasty social pressures that are just as unfair to guys as they are to us.
I'm sure many of us can understand these pressures. I know I can. They were pushed on me before I figured myself out.
And then the stupid gender divide, that causes guys to put us up on a pedestal or create an us and them mentality is something that I personally think is responsible for the amount of trouble women get in for just dressing a certain way.
But I have to agree that certain body types simply can't work with certain clothing. People need to wear what looks good on them. Rolls of fat coming out of peoples' clothing makes me shudder.
