This makes sense to me. I was going through a time where I would get up in the morning and look at myself in the mirror. All I could see was a man but then other days I would get up and look in the same mirror and see all women. The light shining through the window highlighted things that made me look more male and on the other days it was cloudy outside hiding the things that made me look more male. Yes, I had to know why this was happening. I'm like that it turned into an observation thing for me.
I pass in the winter almost all the time. cloudy
I don't pass in the summer, sunny.
I have been trying to understand how to make the same affect with make up. All I have learned so far is I need better make up that last longer. It don't take long to sweet it off.

Even people around me were driving me crazy. One would say maam the next would say sir. I am wondering what was giving me away to the one and the other only saw a woman.
It has been crazy. My favorite one was the new guy at work that had no idea what the he** I was. our the next new guy who thought I was just a women that liked working out. I least I know no one is talking about me anymore at work all the new people are starting to have no clue. I'm finally old news.