I am guessing that you 1st have to pay for a lawyer, then get your name changed with social security, then change your ID/passport cards to female and with the new name, and then lastly change the birth certificate to female with the new name? or is there some other order or options that can be done for inexpensive? Right now my name is Shawn but I wont be changing that or my last name , just my middle name will go from edward to Sunshine, so what options do I have?