Bottom dysphoria...help

[Josh]

Alright so lately I've had really bad bottom dysphoria (more than usual I mean). I don't want bottom surgery but I definitely get dysphoric when peeing, sex sometimes, masturbating definitely and just in general. I had a hand me down packer but it died on me and I've gone about half a year without packing. I've used socks off and on lately but it's so unrealistic it bothers me having cloth down there, I'd actually rather have nothing. Another thing is that harnesseses bother me... I just use safety pins even though it sorta ->-bleeped-<-s up my clothing. I just don't know what to do... I am literally dead broke now because of a kitten, college, and a recent car accident. It's killing me. How do you deal?

[Adio]

I understand where you are coming from.  My bottom dysphoria has been fairly significant lately.  In some ways I'm more comfortable but in others...I don't know what I'd do without my packer.  I see it as an extension of myself.  Have you tried making one of the condom/hair gel packers?  Also an elastic or jock strap harness works better for me than safety pins.  Something to try in the future.

Just know you aren't alone.

[tvc15]

PM me your address and I will order a Mr Limpy for you and have it sent to your mailbox.


I always mention this harness [http://www.ftmguide.org/images/simpleharness.pdf] but it's less than $5 to make and you don't even feel it's there. Try it out, it's cheap enough that if you don't like it you haven't wasted any money. But it is flawless and you don't have to worry about your packer ever falling out.

[Lee]

Have you tried just putting it in a pair of briefs?  I've never had a problem with that.

[Josh]

I only wear boxers, uncomfortable otherwise. Used to wear boxer briefs but not anymore.

[wheat thins are delicious]

When you get the new packer you need to use a harness or something, the one tvc15 linked is good and cheap/easy to make.  A safety pin won't work in a mr limpy or any packer for that matter (unless it's a sock)

[tvc15]

Yeah I'd definitely recommend the use of a harness instead of a cock sock, or just free-floating in your briefs. I don't know how people can go through the day with their packer sitting in their underwear with nothing securing it there. Even when I just walk around it slips around if there isn't some sort of harness there. A cock sock might make the area more sweaty and harder to adjust, not sure, never used one. But the cheap harness is perfect and you don't have to worry about